Wa `alaykum as-Salamu wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuh.

It seems you seem to mix up the actions of some so-called Muslims as if they were the teachings of Islam. By doing so, you are committing a grave sin for you are assuming that the Laws of Allah are unjust and favor men over women.

As a Muslimah, you should know that Allah is Just, and He does not tolerate injustice in any shape or form. The Quran is full of verses that teach us that injustice towards anyone, whether Muslim or non-Muslim, cannot be tolerated in Islam. How can it be when Allah orders the faithful: stand forth as witnesses of truth and justice. And be just even if it is against your interests or the interests of your parents or blood relations.”

The Quran also orders the husbands to treat their wives with fairness and mercy even if they were to find some traits of character that are displeasing to them:

Allah gives men only two choices in regards to their wives: To treat them honorably as wives or release them from the marital bond honorably. And warns against harming them or holding them as prisoners.

And mind you when Allah orders husbands to treat their wives fairly and kindly, He also reminds them: Allah is Hearing and Knowing.” That is to tell them that they ought to remember they are accountable before Allah if they were to abuse or harm their wives.

Moreover, the Prophet (peace be upon him), also said: “The best of you is the one who is the kindest towards his wife.”

Almighty Allah knows best.