Q My mother does not allow me, her son, to give Zakah, Islamic gift money payments to near blood relatives, or any type of my money to my blood relatives. But I told my mother's sister, my blood aunty, that I would give my aunty Zakah next month for my aunty's medicine, medical costs, and emergencies. But I think my mother's sister is telling me lies that she/my aunty needs money for medicine. (1) Is it halal or haram for me to give Zakah to my mother's blood sister, my aunty, as I told my aunty I will give her/my aunty Zakah for medicine, medical costs, and emergencies next month? Me giving any type of my money to my mom's sister will make my mother very angry, upset, depressed, and scared of me, her son, if my mom found out that I do actually send my aunty Zakah money. So, is it halal or haram, wajib or Sunnah for me to give Zakah to my aunty when I am clearly going against my mom's command to never ever give my aunty any Zakah or any other type of money? (2) My mother does not allow me to give Zakah or Islamic close relatives' gift money payments to any of my relatives. But I told a female cousin that I will try my best to give my female cousin's husband an Islamic close blood relatives' gift money payment next month without my mother's permission, hiding this money payment from my mother to not hurt my mother. Is it halal, haram, wajib, or Sunnah to give an Islamic close blood relatives' gift payment to my female cousin's husband without my mother's permission, when my mother would be hurt, depressed, worried, and scared of me if my mother does find out that I paid an Islamic close blood relatives' gift payment to the husband of this female cousin of mine too? This female cousin is my mother's blood sister's daughter, and my mother hates her blood sister a lot. I told my female cousin that I will give an Islamic close blood relatives' gift payment to her husband next month. My mother does not allow me to give an Islamic close blood relatives' gift payment to this female cousin of mine, or to her husband too. As my mother does not allow me to give any type of money to any of my near blood relatives, am I allowed to give Zakah or Islamic gift money payments to any of my near blood relatives? Especially when I told a few close blood relatives whom my mother hates a lot that I will give them Zakah for medicine, medical costs, emergencies, and an Islamic Qur'anic financial close blood relative gift payment next month? My mother will be very angry, upset, scared, and depressed if she finds out that I, her male adult son, give some of my money savings in secret as Zakah and Islamic Qur'anic near relatives' money gift payments to any of my mother's blood relatives, including both blood relatives whom my mother hates a lot and also blood relatives whom my mother does not hate a lot. Half of my mind/intellect thinks that some of my blood relatives are telling lies to fool me into thinking that they need money help so that they can purchase non-needed things. But half of my mind/intellect thinks that some of my close blood relatives might need emergency money payment help. My mother hates her blood sister a lot, and the husband of her blood sister too. And my mom does not allow me to give my money in Zakah, Qur'anic Islamic close blood relatives' money gift payments, or to give my money in any method to my mom's blood relatives. (3) And my mother has told me, her son, loads of times that I, her son, am never ever allowed to give any type of money payment to my mother's blood relatives. But sometimes I have told a few blood relatives whom my mother hates a lot that I will give these blood relatives of mine Islamic money payments while hiding this act from my mother because my mother does not allow me to give my money to my mother's blood relatives. So, should I stop telling my mother's blood relatives that I want to give them Zakah or Islamic close relatives' gift payments because my mother does not allow me to do this?