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My Wife Hated Sex; I Divorced Her

12 July, 2021
Q I divorced my wife after six years of marriage with two kids. However, I can't bear it now. I can't eat even. I need advice on how to cope with the situation.

The problem began a month after our wedding in regards to the issue of sex. My wife hates sex. I didn't commit zina before my marriage and I don't want to do it after it. This situation was very dangerous to me.

I did all my best to save the marriage, but I couldn't. What happened has already happened.

We reached last segment of our union. Medical advice, Islamic traditional medicine, Ruqqiyyah. We tried all, but the painful thing is that I reported the case several times to her parents, however, they didn't do anything.

It is only me. I tried, for example, that we spent one or two months without sex. But it is hard. I like to have it after one or two days. I didn't want to commit Zina. I need advice.

Answer

Salam Alaikum,

In this counseling video, you will learn:

Education, a few blogs about sex would help a lot.

Seek professional help.

Give some time for yourself to grieve, to educate yourself.

Be a gentleman. Be kind.

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Salam,

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About Megan Wyatt
Megan Wyatt is the founder of Wives of Jannah where she offers training programs, live workshops, and relationship coaching for wives and couples. She is a certified Strategic Intervention coach with specialized certifications for working with women and marital relationships and has been coaching and mentoring Muslims globally since 2008. She shares her passion for Islamic personal development in her Passionate Imperfectionist community. She is a wife and homeschooling mother with four children residing in Southern California.