Answer
As a mother, your fear of Allah for her is understandable, but it is she who has to make the decision and turn to Allah to change her heart for the better.
As she is grown up, probably she knows very well that what she is doing is wrong.
Too much scolding will automatically put her on defense.
In order to get her to comply, you need to keep her in a neutral mode, when she is more willing to listen to your advice instead of rejecting it.
Try to approach her in a kind and understanding way. First, ask for a little, then a little more.
This might make her think about her faults and agree to participate gradually in the worship during Ramadan and beyond.
What else can you try? Check out the answer here.
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