Wa `alaykum As-Salamu wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuh.

I ask Allah to shower you with mercy, tranquility and eternal happiness in this life and the hereafter. I think the reason for these repeated divorces is that you do not make up your mind wisely by taking time to think about your future husband and when you get involved you become enthusiastic to start a new life without setting up conditions and studying future possibilities to see whether your marriage would be successful, feasible or not.

Unfortunately, each time you turn out by having much expectation from each other but each one fails to fulfill his duties.

When a person knew that he has already committed a sin, he should not start crying or being sorry for the past. He/she hasten to make repentance and ask others for forgiveness. Moreover, he or she must hasten to benefit from this situation in the future.

Getting divorced for seven times does not necessarily mean that it is your fault. I am sure some of those men had defects and problems. Allah made divorce a way for a woman and man to stop a social experience that may cause them to disobey Allah or commit sins.

My advice for you is to have a good expectation about Allah and start a new life, but this time when someone proposes for you, try to study the proposal, set up minimum conditions which guarantee to make this marriage successful, keep yourself patient with your husband and try to forgive any faults or mistakes he might have. Base your final decision on istikhara and after consulting your family or your friends. I ask Allah to guide you to take the right decision.

Almighty Allah knows best.