Wa `alaykum As-Salamu waRahmatullahi wa Barakatuh.
Abu Hatim Al-Muzani narrated that the Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) said: “When someone whose religion and character you are pleased with comes to you then marry (her to) him. If you do not do so, then there will be a turmoil in the land and corruption.” They said: “O Messenger of Allah! What if there was something about him?” He said: “When someone whose religion and character you are pleased with comes to you then marry him.” (And he (peace be upon him) said this) three times. This hadith has been related by At-Trimidhi, but the scholars graded it as weak.
This ḥadith of the Prophet refers to someone whose religion and character are good. In case of this man, he does not seem of good character. You have the freedom to reject his proposal even if it is against the will of your father or mother.
The Prophet has been reported as saying, “There is not harm to be inflicted or reciprocated.” This marriage is expected to bring up a great harm on you in the future.
We recommend you to express your point view in a nice and reasonable way putting into your consideration that your parents will always wish the best for your life.
Almighty Allah knows best.
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