As-Salamu ‘Alaikum,
Alhamdulillah, Allah has guided you to the correct path, but unfortunately, you seem to be having a bad experience with some people in the Middle East. This is a big test when people from within the religion you have joined seem to be very unwelcoming. Your challenge does not allow this to get to you or push you away from the straight path. So, for a start, you can simply view it as a test – a chance to show your firm belief in Allah (swt) and not allow the words of others to push you to show otherwise. This will allow Allah (swt) to see that you are strong and firm in faith and, in sha Allah, will reward you for this. We are all tested in numerous ways that may take us away from our deen, but we can always use them as a chance to prove our love for Allah (swt).
Also remember, like you say, not to generalise based on the actions of some. There are people who don’t behave nicely towards you, but there are also those who are good and honest people.
Many non-Muslim also judge Muslims based on the actions of a few and unfortunately, this has an impact on the entire ummah. Therefore, we have to be careful not to enter into the same kind of actions as well. I think it’s clear that you realise this, but just continue to remind yourself in order that you don’t end up having this view of all Middle Eastern people.
However, this doesn’t take away the fact that the actions of a few are having an impact on you. Alhamdulillah, your attitude that they will repent is a good positive attitude to have; it will help you to manage such a difficult situation. Additionally, you can follow the instructions of Allah (swt) and repel their bad actions with that which is better. So, at the very least, returning their comments with silence is better than saying anything bad back. Do not let their comments get to you or tempt you to say bad words back. Instead, respond with kindness and pray for them. This can be very difficult but will make you feel a lot better. You can be sure that you won’t move forward with any feelings of regret for saying anything bad. You can feel confident that your kind response in return is most pleasing to Allah (
This can be very difficult but will make you feel a lot better. You can be sure that you won’t move forward with any feelings of regret for saying anything bad. You can feel confident that your kind response in return is most pleasing to Allah (swt). So when you hear any negative comment, remember Allah (swt). In return, this will make it easier to return any action or comment in a way that is most pleasing to Allah (swt). Therefore, whatever comments they send your way, you can feel content that Allah (swt) is pleased regardless of their behaviour.
May Allah (swt) bring you comfort and ease during this difficult time and reward your patience and perseverance for His sake.
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