Q I am a 24 years old woman. I had a relationship in past, we were supposed to get married. I trusted that person, but he cheated on me. He didn't leave me, but he was sexually attracted to other girls, he used to reach out to women virtually. That sudden break of trust left me paranoid. My father did the same thing with my mother. Moreover, whenever we go to social media, we see a lot of man doing the same thing despite having wife, even child. Currently, I am with a good man, I assume. We will be married after 5 months, InShaAllah.

He prays, but he is not THE Perfect one, he had his flaws in past, BUT HE IS TRYING TO GET BETTER. HE gave me his access of socials. The thing is I am such a woman I can't even accept my partner replying a female, even as a friend. I don't do this either. I know he won't leave me, but I don't want him even to give a bit of attention some other female. Now maybe due to my PTSD, I have this constant fear that something wrong is happening behind my back, I have this intense urge to check his phone & socials when we are apart. And whenever I think of checking I face severe anxiety in a fear that if I check probably, I will see something wrong. Yes, I have talked about this fear with my partner. No what's the solution? Should I check his phone on a regular basis?