Q:

Salam, I’m a 22 year old girl and planning for get married in the near future inshaAllah, I have noticed that I tend to take my partner for granted and abuse his niceness and even be controlling

I’m afraid this behavior will follow me in our married life and It will be considered as a sin in the eyes of Allah

A:

Wa `alaykum As-Salamu waRahmatullahi wa Barakatuh.

You are advised to seek professional counseling; it should help you change your behavior. If you were to hasten to get married without learning to manage your anger and change your attitude, you would end up destroying your marriage.

So, go for counseling; if he or she advises you to take an anger management course, you should do that for your protection and the future of your married life.

Almighty Allah Knows best.