Wa `alaykum As-Salamu wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuh

 

Before making the final decision to part ways forever, you should seek professional counseling. A counselor should be able to help you with how you can reconcile the differences amicably. You may also do well to study the book, Blissful Marriage: A Practical Islamic Guide by Ekram Beshir and Mohamed Beshir.

 

I would also urge you to read my short piece on the 5 tips to build a happy marriage: you may access it here:

 

http://www.islam.ca/documents/akutty-Five_Cs_for_happy_marriage.pdf

 

Almighty Allah knows best.