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Shall I Marry a Divorced Man?

Shall I Marry a Divorced Man?

In this counseling answer: •Many Muslims have been married before and have children. Many Muslims have been to prison and are now wonderful Muslims. People change. •You say that he is a very nice person and respectful. What about his faith? What about his devotion to Allah and following Islam? •Before you tell your parents …

Are Intimate Relationships Allowed in Ramadan?

I Wish to Marry Someone, but My Parents Disapprove Him

In this counseling answer: •If the man is Islamically acceptable for you to marry, you are free to marry him regardless of what your parents say. •Tribalism, racism, and seeking one with a lot of money are not valid reasons to deny marriage. •He was not born into Islam but made a conscious decision to …

My Mom Becomes Crazy in Ramadan due to Her Mental Illness

My Mom Becomes Crazy in Ramadan due to Her Mental Illness

In this counseling answer: •Consult her doctors whether she is allowed to fast due to her condition. •You could take this a step further by observing if there is anything in particular that seems to get her most aggravated. •Perhaps she does not realize how harsh she is whilst she is fasting. Let her know …

A Girl with Drug Problems; I Want to Help by Marrying Her

A Girl with Drug Problems; I Want to Help by Marrying Her

In this counseling answer: •With that said, should you marry her, you may be in for a very long road of possible caretaking, mistrust, and traumatic experiences should she relapse during a recovery. •If you want to help her, brother, please do suggest that she gets mental health and substance abuse counseling as soon as …

How Can I Tell My Parents I Want to Get Married?

How Can I Tell My Parents I Want to Get Married?

In this counseling answer: •It is a natural desire and process to seek marriage when one is of age and ready. •If you feel shy to speak to your parents, you may wish to write a letter that you can then read to them. •I’ll kindly suggest as well to bring up points about marriage …

Shall I Hate My Cousin Who Has Sinned?

Shall I Hate My Cousin Who Has Sinned?

In this counseling answer: • If someone does something inappropriate, it does not mean that we should hate them as a person. Just because their behavior was bad, it doesn’t make them a bad person. • If this cousin is a girl, then you can talk to her directly about the matter to encourage her …

My Friend Has a Boyfriend; How to Guide Her?

My Friend Has a Boyfriend; How to Guide Her?

In this counseling answer: •Punctuate your time with your friend with stories of “bad endings” people had with boyfriends. •Make duaa for her. •Continue to be her support.Inshallah, your calm and guiding behavior will change her for the better. •Be patient and do not talk bad about her boyfriend. •Discuss marriage with her. What type …

Fiancé Said He Won’t Marry Me, Unless I Quit My Studies

Fiancé Said He Won’t Marry Me, Unless I Quit My Studies

In this counseling answer: • Unless and until he approaches your parents alongside his parents, what you do is not at all his concern. He is simply trying to control you and ruin your life. • I suggest that you seek to develop a strong relationship with your parents and that in the future you …

I’m Obese; I Fear Getting Intimate with My Future Wife

I’m Obese; I Fear Getting Intimate with My Future Wife

In this counseling answer: •Your concern is a common one among men of all ages who are overweight. However, the concern does not exceed into excessive worrying. •Brother, people cheat for all types of reasons. In a truly loving relationship with trust and good communication and Islamic principles, cheating is less likely to occur. •Make …

How to Fast Ramadan While Having My Final Exams?

How to Fast Ramadan While Having My Final Exams?

In this counseling answer: • Trust in Allahthat you will make it through Ramadan. • Make duaa. •Make a schedule for your Ramadan obligations as well as your school obligations. • Ensure that you eat healthy, energizing foods aftermagriband especially forsuhoor.Also,stay hydrated throughout the evening. As-Salamu ‘Alaykum, Thank you for your question. It is one …



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