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Shall We End Our Relationship for Our Parents’ Sake?

Shall We End Our Relationship for Our Parents’ Sake?

Answer: As-Salamu `Alaikum dear sister, Thank you for writing to us. I wonder if there is a way that this guy proposes to you through a third person who the family knows and trusts; it doesn’t have to be through you. You can just keep yourself out of the whole picture and let this third …

I Never Met Him But, I Fell In Love With Him

I Never Met Him But, I Fell In Love With Him

In this counseling answer: The counselor advises that if the both of you are serious about marriage, the both of you will find a way to meet in person as well as your respected parents.If you do not believe that your relationship can go the next level, then I advise you to discontinue chatting with …

He Brought Me to Cam Sex

He Brought Me to Cam Sex

In this counseling answer: If he has not talked to your parents or other family members and asked them if he can marry you, then you do not want anything to do with him. The best thing for you to do at this time is to refuse to talk to him again. Wa ‘Alaikum As-Salam …

Loves Me But Wants to Stay Friends; Leave Him?

Loves Me But Wants to Stay Friends; Leave Him?

Answer: As-salamu `alaikum dear Sister, Thank you for writing us with your question. Religious and cultural differences aside, based on what you have shared regarding this man’s actions (alone), I would say that it sounds as if it would be best to leave him alone. Of course, I am only providing my opinion based on …

I Fell in Love with an Atheist

I Fell in Love with an Atheist

Answer: As-Salamu ‘Alaikom, Dear sister, have no worries as they will interfere with your ability to literally feel and experience what living on the spiritual plane of existence really is. Attachment to this world of dunya is the result of our “lower nature” which pulls us “to sleep”, if you will. These ideas take time …

Love Without Commitment: Allowed?

Love Without Commitment: Allowed?

Answer: As-Salaamu `Alaikum dear brother, This is a great question. Many individuals continue to ponder on this question, especially in the modern society that we are living in, western and non-western. In addressing your concerns, it is important for any individual whois serious about marriage to do their own research and study a variety of …

I Shouldn't Have Dug Into His Past

I Shouldn't Have Dug Into His Past

Answer: As-Salamu `Alaikum Sister, Jazak Allah khairan for writing in with this issue. Your letter raises the difficulty that many people experience whilst balancing Islam in its pure form and managing human frailties. Implementing Islam in our lives is a challenge and a struggle; in our daily relationships, we deal with people who do not …

I Feel Dirty for Having This Relationship

I Feel Dirty for Having This Relationship

Answer: As-Salamu ‘Alaikumdear Sister, Of course, there is a way out, yetit requires such a hard work to be seen, and a full readiness from your side to be attained. I am fully aware of how you feel about yourself, but let me tell you this “We are all humans, and we all make mistakes”; …

I Lost My Values for A Man; Help Me Find Myself!

I Lost My Values for A Man; Help Me Find Myself!

Answer: Wa ‘Aleikom Salam Sister, You are very sweet, and you have superior insight into your own situation. I can truly appreciate the feelings of being “thrown off balance” and the pain of questioning one’s self, as well as the feelings of hurt and betrayal when someone we trusted seems to take advantage of our …



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