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6 Tips to Move on From a Crash

6 Tips to Move on From a Crush

In this counseling answer: “When you go through heartbreak, you must remove all triggers that remind you of that person. Instead, focus on connecting with close friends who can support you, having hobbies of interest, and so on. Avoid living in the past and looking him on social media. In the future, try to actually …

Fiance Says I'm Not 'Talented' Enough

Fiance Says I'm Not 'Talented' Enough

In this counseling answer: “If you feel that your fiancé will be a critical spouse, one that is unhappy with what you have to offer but rather pushes you to be someone you are not, then you may have to give this union more thought.” Wa `Alaykum As-Salaam, I commend you for having a balanced …

Overcoming a Threatening Boyfriend

Overcoming a Threatening Boyfriend

Answer: As-Salamu ‘Alaykum my dear sister, I am sorry to hear about this situation.I would first like to take this opportunity to share the attribute of Allah Al-Wadood (The Most Loving) with you, because I believe it can in sha’ Allah strengthen one’s faith and hope in Allah’s mercy which is one of the greatest …

I Can't Stop This Haram Relationship

I Can't Stop This Haram Relationship

In this counseling answer: “I would encourage you to be open and honest about your feelings from the start.Let your fiancé know how you feel about your phone conversations and hear what he has to say. Do not shy away from discussing your feelings; this is an essential part of a healthy marriage. The both …

She is Threatening Me: Shall I Marry Her?

She is Threatening Me: Shall I Marry Her?

In this counseling answer: “You are not responsible for her behaviors even though she used manipulation to make you feel you may be. These are her choices and her issues – not yours.” As-Salamu ‘Alaykum brother, Thank you for your question. As this girl has had several “love relationships” with two of your friends and …

I Can’t Forget My Ex-Girlfriend

I Can’t Forget My Ex-Girlfriend

In this counseling answer: “I advise you to begin working on forgetting about this girl and the promise you made to wait because the reality is that she is already engaged. Work on yourself, your addiction, and seek out activities that will bring you closer to Allah (swt) which, in turn, will bring you closer …

Girlfriend After Girlfriend: Will Allah Forgive Me?

Girlfriend After Girlfriend: Will Allah Forgive Me?

In this counseling answer: I advise you to marry this current girl whom you are serious about and get involved in something. Pick up an activity, a higher degree and look for a job. Get busy. Wa ‘Aleikom Salam, We often remember that Allah is Al Raheem (The Most Merciful). With this belief, we dwell …

He Said He Loves Me, But Cheated on Me

He Said He Loves Me, But Cheated on Me

In this counseling answer: “If you want to give it another chance, be ready to work on removing the resentment from your heart if you really want to be with him and begin to look ahead and not the past. You must be sincerely committed to moving forward. I would encourage couples therapy as it …

I Left Him But Worried About What He Thinks of Me

I Left Him But Worried About What He Thinks of Me

In this counseling answer: Focus on the ‘here’ and ‘now’ instead; this is the only thing we have control over.Reflect on the fact that Allah (swt) has saved you from that evil cycle you were in with this man. Use it to praise Allah (swt) and be grateful for the fact that He saved you. …

My Uncle Sexually Abused Me; I Feel Guilty

My Uncle Sexually Abused Me; I Feel Depressed

In this counseling answer: “What your uncle did to you was not your fault; being at such a young age, you did not know what was right and wrong. Remember, Allah (swt) will punish your uncle in this world or the next. Focus on yourself and your well-being. This abuse has set a big scar …



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