The Quran is an amazing book. Every word, every verse, every section, every story has a nuance and a miracle.
One of these miracles is the way the Quran contains ideas and thoughts that did not even exist in those days, for example, how the Quran shatters many of the stereotypes that we have today.
This article will look at a few such instances.
Childless Women, Unmarried Women, and Divorcees
A number of the wives of the Prophet did not have children, and they will be in the highest level of Paradise. How do we look at infertile women today?
The wife of Pharaoh, Asiya was infertile too, and married to the worst person ever, Pharaoh. Yet, she is among the four best women on earth. She did not let her evil husband define her! She had a powerful connection with Allah…
Mary was among the four best women on earth, and she never got married. How do our communities look at a woman who never gets married?
Moreover, she was a single mother! She was content, spiritually successful, and a symbol in not only Islam, but Christianity.
This teaches us that marriage and motherhood are not the only ways to Paradise. These also teach us that women are not “dependent” on men for their worth and their salvation.
The Prophet taught us the value of all women when he himself married divorcees. Allah honors the wives of the prophet by calling them “Mothers of the Believers”.
How does our community shun divorcees when their ‘mothers’ were divorcees themselves? Why does our community see women who have been divorced as damaged goods? Why do we only see them as second wives?
Desire, Error, and Wealth
Prophet Yusuf was desired by Zulaykha, the wife of Al ‘Aziz, and she was a woman. Who claims that desires only belong to men?
The Queen of Sheba was in a leadership position. Yes, a woman was in a leadership position, and she was praised in the Quran. Prophet Solomon was a wealthy King. He loved her confidence, and approached her for marriage– it was one of the reasons that attracted him to her. They were joined in a loving bond.
Did the wealth of Solomon take him away from his creator? Quite the contrary; it brought Him closer to Allah, as he used his wealth for His sake. Why do we keep wondering that to be truly pious one has to be poor? That wealth is somehow “bad”?
Yunus ran away from the responsibility that Allah had bestowed upon him– the responsibility of calling his people to one God. In our communities we’ll judge, we’ll slander, we’ll be unwilling to forgive someone who has slipped, but Allah teaches us that even the best of people make mistakes and are in need of His mercy. Yunus recognized that he’d made a mistake, and turned back to Him sincerely— and Allah accepted him.
The Quran and Sunnah give us solutions to all the stereotypes in our communities. We’ve done a great injustice to ourselves by holding on to that which Islam came to eliminate from our lives. We need to use the ready-made replies of Allah when such stereotypes arise!
Source: Understand Quran.