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Bullying, Islamophobia: How to Address Challenges Facing Young Muslims

“I don’t feel safe at school. Sometimes I say to my dad, ‘I don’t want to go to school anymore.’”

These words were spoken by a 15-year-old schoolboy named Jamal, who, with his family, escaped from Syria as refugees to resettle in the Yorkshire town of Huddersfield.

In a desperate attempt for help, Jamal e-mailed the local authority, the local council, the Department of Education and the police, with no result. Eventually, Jamal got in touch with a local Councillor, Bernard McGuin, who said, “This cry for help really touched my heart. It hurt me. I was glad he contacted me.”

As a London-based solicitor, Tasnime Akunjee observed repeated complaints of bullying were being made to staff as well, but they were being ignored.

Eventually, footage of Jamal being ‘waterboarded’ by a bully was shared on social media resulting in the outrage, and the subsequent outcry.

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Jamal was not alone as a victim. His sister, who attends the same school was also being bullied to the point where she tried to cut her own wrists in the school toilets. And in a more recent incident, her pink headscarf was removed from her head, though the school did exclude the girl who bullied her.

Aggravating the situation, far-right activist Tommy Robinson began circulating fake news claiming that Jamal was involved in a gang attack on a white girl.

Beyond the obvious ‘abuse’ this particular claim is designed to appeal to the far-right who appeal to emotions fueling divisions in society, ignoring the abuse of young girls by ‘white’ criminals and focusing criticism of abuse of young girls by ‘brown’ criminals.

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A Plea for Help

On their website, the charity MEND (Muslim Engagement And Development), observe that “Islamophobia has risen to intolerable levels for many British Muslims. Discrimination at work and abuse in the street are all too common.”

With a population of 2.8 million British Muslims, almost half, 48% are 24 or under (33% under the age of 15) marking a very young age profile.

Creating a safe space for children to live, explore and discover life, without fear of abuse, directly or indirectly, is increasingly important. And this applies to all faith groups, including Hindu, Sikh, Jewish, even the various Christian denominations.

Former presidential candidate Hilary Clinton shared a video in a Tweet on what she describes to be the ‘Trump Effect.’ In it, children from different backgrounds and situations share their stories of being bullied, including a young Muslim boy.

In a Tweet, British Muslim Dr Umar Al-Qadri demonstrates how bullying is a fringe activity, as the response to Jamal’s situation has raised significant donations for his family.

The first Tweet demonstrates the normalization of abuse and bullying, led in the US by the now American President, but carried similarly here in the UK as a result of populism that drives the #Brexit debate.

The second Tweet provides the counter balance. Whether in the US, the UK, or anywhere else in the world, there exists amongst people a common decency, a mutual humanity, and it is that which must be expressed and shared further.

Statistics from MEND show that 1 in 3 Britons admits being racially prejudice. Whether this translates to direct or indirect abuse and mistreatment is a subject for discussion.

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Peer Pressure

According to the NHS, 6% of 11-year-old children, and 24% of 15-year-old children say they have tried drugs. In adults, the statistic is 8%.

Explaining why children take drugs, the American Addiction Center identifies a number of causes, to include boredom, a bonding experience, depression, curiosity, low-self esteem, and peer pressure.

In her article in The Independent, Lucy Nichol writes, “We need to radically change the way we talk to kids about drugs,” citing the charity Addaction who suggest that there should be more open conversations about drugs.

In a narration relayed in the Sunah of Abu Dawood, it is reported that Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) once said that a person will follow the religion of their friend, so be careful who you make your friend.

So while keeping good company is one very important way to help shape our choices, it is open dialogue and conversation with children, making them aware of values and choices – particularly when the internet is at this fingertips – that will empower them with sufficient knowledge to behave better.

About Farrukh Younus
Farrukh I Younus has a background in mobile phone strategy across Europe and Asia, and has visited China on more than 25 occasions. Dedicated to understanding and delivering solutions based on new technology, Younus has spoken on the subject to the EU in Brussels, and regularly attends industry-leading conferences. He currently runs a video platform, Implausibleblog, delivering lifestyle content via social media; where his focus is on understanding consumer behaviour with regards to digital content and digital advertising. His interests include travel, nouvelle cuisine, and chocolate.