To our Muslim youth who want to fall in love with another human but have not yet fallen in love with Allah, they have not found their purpose in life yet.
It is a sad state when 15 or 16 year olds are begging for nikkah to not fall into haram but they need to find themselves first. You only realize that your choice of a spouse changes your whole life.
Do not choose a spouse on a whim, because of your hormones or emotions. Give control of your heart and mind to Allah first and He will make the best use of them.