Whatever authority Allah has given you, use it to earn your afterlife. Don’t be a pharaoh in the house if you are a father! Be a good father.
In our homes, there are some pharaohs. They operate in the house as if they have no connection with Allah. They behave as if they are not answerable to Allah in anyway.
We must remember, we are answerable to Allah for absolutely everything. Take care around your children. Allah gave you those children they are His creation. We all belong to Allah, we do not belong to each other.
What is happening now if when your child wants to marry and you want to reject based on your prejudices. You can reject but you are answerable to Allah and Allah will come for you. Allah warns us that there will be chaos in your own home if you don’t turn to Allah.