Many of us go through divorce. Divorce is not a bad thing if it is the last resort. What is bad is how you conduct your behaviour towards your ex spouse.
Are you going to speak bad about your ex spouse or are you going to let it go? People make lives more difficult after divorce then when they were in the marriage and facing problems.
Divorce is something that happens that opens doors to new ibaadah that you would never been able to fill if you had not gone through the divorce. Allah will test you through this. What are you going to do? You will either pass it or fail it.
Say good things about your ex-spouse. You can say you believe you are a good person, your spouse was a good person but you just didn’t get a long. Don’t cross that point further. Save your tongue for the Day of Judgement.