Q:

salaam brother

i was married in 2018 i have done nikkah and my wife is still at her parents home !! my question to you is it allowed to see each other naked on video calling or talk about sex before rukhsati !! as she is not having any sort of knowledge regarding this please kindly guide me regarding this !!

regards

A:

Wa alaykum assalam wa rahmatullah wa barakatuh

In the Name of Allah, the All-Merciful, the Mercy-Giving.

All praise is due to Allah. Peace and blessings be upon His Messenger Muhammad.

These programs which have access to your data and use your cams can easily be breached and used for spying. Besides, these programs usually keep records of chats and conversation, which can also be retrieved by intruders. This means that chats with your wife are not a hundred percent safe from encroachment and intrusion and you are not in inviolable privacy.

Therefore, a wife may not expose her nakedness in front of webcams to please her husband.  This is based on one of the principles of Islamic jurisprudence, which is the principle sadd al-Dhara’i` (blocking means to evil). Besides, this practice will not satisfy your desires but, on the contrary, will add more fuel to the fire.

May Allah protect your chastity and bashfulness. 

Allah knows best.