Wa `alaykum as-Salamu wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuh.

I pray to Allah to bless your baby and make him/her a source of comfort for you and your family and an asset to the community.

Now let me come to the specific questions you have raised:

1- It is a recommended for the parents to shave the head of the newborn on the seventh day; however, if they couldn’t do it, they should do it without further delay as soon as possible.

It is also recommended to give charity to the poor and offer a sacrifice which is known as `Aqiqah. Part of the meat of the sacrifice should be distributed to the poor by way of thanksgiving to Allah for His wonderful gift.

2- As for removing the hair, one may use any efficient means or devices. The most important consideration should be to make it less painful or discomforting to the baby. One may use any methods if these conditions are fulfilled and the hair is removed. We may do well to remember the words of the Prophet (peace be upon him): “This religion of ours is simple and easy to follow. Therefore, whoever acts rigidly in such matters will only be hurting himself.”

Allah Almighty knows best.