It would be best if you decided on such matters consensually; you cannot say I want this way or he cannot say: I insist on this way. Instead, you should discuss and arrive at a decision that is satisfactory to both of you.

Spouses are partners; both of you have equal rights in due proportion. No one should feel compromised or a loser. It should be the case of a win-win situation so that neither one should feel to be a loser.

If before starting the marriage you are not able to agree on such matters, then it does not bode well for your future relationship.

Almighty Allah knows best.