As salamu alaykum sister,

Shokran for writing into our live session. While I am familiar with twin flames and soulmates, my knowledge on whatever telepathic experiences you are having is limited.  As I am not an Islamic scholar, I am not even sure that it is acceptable in Islam as Allah is the All Knowing. Possibly what you are experiencing is a strong desire for this boy, so strong that your mind has started to believe all these thoughts are from him and that the sensations are real when in fact they are not.  Another Islamic issue is that of the whisperings of the shaitan.  The shaitan can get into our feelings sister and make us think and feel all kinds of things if we are not careful.

I would kindly suggest dear sister that you attempt to block these ‘conversations/thoughts” as much as possible.  When they start happening-imagine a big red stop sign in your mind.  Then make dua to Allah to help them go away and seek refugee in Allah from the shaitan.  While you may be comfortable with these conversations and experiences (with the exception of the kissing) I would kindly suggest that you seek out an evaluation from a counselor in your area to rule out any mental health issues that may be causing these emotions and physical feelings.  Additionally dear sister, please do write into our ‘Ask the Scholar” section for a more Islamic perspective on what you are going through in regards to the whisperings and the feelings of being kissed.  While some people may have spiritual connections, this one certainly is not a good one. This is not of Allah’s blessings, this is not something that would be given to either of you as a ‘Gift” from Allah (soulmate) as it involves haram inovations and thoughts.  I would seriously re-think your position on this dear sister and seek out counseling as well as scholarly Islamic guidence regarding this situation before it goes too far.  I am sorry I could not be more of a help but the best I can offer you is to follow up as soon as possible Islamically as well as psychologically.

We wish you the best.