Khawla- The Feminist
It is narrated that Khawla’s husband, while in an argument with her, declared that she was like his mother’s back to him-an idiom of the Arabs at the time, meaning he was divorced from her. She was very hurt by this.
When her husband cooled down, he returned to her to have intimate relations. She refused since he had said that she was no longer like a wife to him.
She took her case to the Prophet (PBUH), knowing this was not just her concern but a concern for her sisters and Muslim women who would come after her.
She refused to leave until the issue was resolved. Allah (SWT) revealed the verses:
{Allah has indeed heard (and accepted) the statement of the woman who pleads with you concerning her husband and carries her complaint (in prayer) to Allah: and Allah (always) hears the arguments between both sides among you: for Allah hears and sees (all things). If any men among you divorce their wives by zihar (calling them their ‘mothers’), they cannot be their mothers. [to the end of verse 4]} (Quran 58:1-4)
Khawla (RA) demanded justice, and Allah (SWT) revealed that men have no right to treat their wives as wives when they feel and desire, and then treat them as if they aren’t their wives when they are angry. [iv]
Sumayya- The Martyr
Sumayya (RA) was a slave who accepted Islam when it was very dangerous to do so.
She was among the most vulnerable to the persecution of the Quraysh since, as a slave, she had no protection in the Arab class system, something Islam had come to abolish.
So, she, her husband, and their son were among those new Muslims who were tortured for their choice of faith.
In one particularly gruesome episode of torture at the hands of Abu Jahl, Sumayya (RA) was told she could save herself from the torture if she denounced her faith.
Abu Jahl repeatedly gave her this option, and she repeatedly refused.
Abu Jahl stabbed her, killing her for refusing to deny her faith in God. She became the first martyr in Islam.
For her bravery and courage of conviction in the face of extreme pain and even death, she was granted paradise. [v]
Nusaybah- The Warrior
Nusaybah took part in numerous battles to defend Islam. But Nusaybah is most famous for her bravery in the Battle of Uhud.
The Prophet (PBUH) said about her,
“Wherever I turned, left or right, on the Day of Uhud — I saw her fighting for me.”
She was inflicted with 13 wounds.
At Nusaybah’s request, the Prophet (PBUH) asked Allah (SWT):
“Oh Allah, make them my companions in the Garden.”
She was not only brave in battle, but she was also an advocate for Muslim women.
She asked the Prophet (PBUH) why the Quran only mentioned men and not women. Soon after Allah (SWT) revealed:
{Indeed, the Muslim men and Muslim women, the believing men and believing women, the obedient men and obedient women, the truthful men and truthful women, the patient men and patient women, the humble men and humble women, the charitable men and charitable women, the fasting men and fasting women, the men who guard their private parts and the women who do so, and the men who remember Allah often and the women who do so – for them Allah has prepared forgiveness and a great reward.} (Quran 33:35) [vi]
Al-Shifa- The Sherriff
Al-Shifa (RA) came to Islam during the time of the Prophet (PBUH).
She was known to be very clever and could read and write at a time when most people were illiterate.
Because of her education, the Prophet asked her to teach his wife how to read and write, and she obliged.
Because of her sharp and inquisitive mind, she became a scholar of Islam, and during the Caliphate of Umar (RA), she was appointed to oversee the market.
“Her duties were to ensure that business practices should always be consistent with Islam.”
She would go around the market, making sure that no cheating or tricks took place and that the buyer and seller conformed to Islamic values.
Umar told shopkeepers that if they were in doubt about the legality of a particular transaction, then they should ask Al-Shifa.” [vii] Al-Shifa served and protected her people.
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References:
[i] http://idealmuslimah.com/personalities/sahaabiyaat/266-barakah-umm-ayman.html
[ii] http://idealmuslimah.com/personalities/sahaabiyaat/1490-rufaydah-al-aslamiyah.html
[iii] http://idealmuslimah.com/personalities/sahaabiyaat/1517-al-khansa-tamadur-bint-amr-ibn-shareed.html
[iv] http://www.siddiqi.org/khawla/khawla_bint_thalaba.htm
[v] http://muslimgirl.com/6616/sumayyah-bin-khayyat/
[vi] http://muslimgirl.com/6659/the-empowered-warrior/
[vii] http://www.arabnews.com/node/396260
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