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How Optimism Will Change Your Life

We have all heard the expression, “The glass is half full or half empty”.

How you perceive it tells you something about your own perception of life.

Do you choose to be optimistic and feel gratitude for the half-full glass, or do you choose pessimism and feel disappointment that the glass is half empty?

This glass can represent your career, your marriage, or even your faith.

Optimism is more than just having a sunny disposition. It embodies an attitude of perseverance, patience, and not giving up in the face of difficulty.

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An optimistic person will notice opportunities instead of focusing on the hardships.

This all describes positive thinking patterns, which in turn make your emotions more stable.

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This cycle of positive thought patterns and emotions will undoubtedly lead to better behaviours.

Can You Be Overly Optimistic?

Some will say that being optimistic opens people up to disappointment and greater letdowns.

While that can be true to an extent, if you actively try to bring optimism into your life, it gives you more resilience when faced with hardship.

We know that even a test or difficulty can have great rewards and outcomes in the end.

Focusing on the end result and having patience is more beneficial than focusing on the hardship.

“For indeed, with hardship [will be] ease.” [Quran 94:5]

This is not to say that we should be unrealistic and always expect rainbows and kittens. Sometimes hardships will come into your life.

It is healthy to be logical and acknowledge the risks associated with your actions.

Ideally, you should strive for optimistic thought patterns that are also rational.

I am not advocating for grandiose illusions that you will become a millionaire overnight and have the perfect marriage, all because you chose to see the glass as half-full. That is not realistic.

Anxiety and Optimism

If we think about anxiety, we can summarise that as fear of the unknown, which can hinder someone’s ability to function when not controlled.

Anxiety disorders hold people back from going after their dreams because they are so afraid of failing that they don’t even try.

An optimist is more likely to pursue their ambitions because of their positive outlook; they see opportunity and believe they can achieve it.

How Optimism Will Change Your Life - About Islam

We like to know we are right and often encounter self-fulfilling prophecies, which simply means we alter our behaviour and thought patterns in order to cause those self-expectations to come true.

For example, an optimistic teacher expects a student to get an A on the exam, so they spend extra time helping them study, which results in getting an A.

On the other hand, a pessimistic teacher may expect a student to perform poorly, so they don’t pay them much attention in class, which results in a lower grade.

We are not actually predicting anything; we are altering our own behaviours in order to make those expectations a reality.

Imagine if you expected yourself to succeed at work. Do you think this would cause you to work harder?

What if you expected your marriage to fail? Would you self-sabotage without realising it’s just to prove yourself right?

Impact of Optimism

When someone decides to take steps forward to increase their optimism, they are choosing to bring more positivity and gratefulness into their life.

If you take on an optimistic perspective when failure happens, instead of becoming defeated, you will have the power to see that as a temporary setback and even a lesson.

If you have ever heard of failing forward, that is an optimistic mindset.

You can even expect physical health benefits from increased optimism.

Studies show that pessimistic people are at a higher risk for hypertension and hindered immune system, and some even claim a reduced life span.

It makes logical sense that choosing to see the world with more positivity will lower health risks associated with stress.

You increase your chances of success. The person who goes into a job interview second-guessing themselves will not come off as competent to the manager, but the optimistic interviewee who knows they are qualified is more likely to exude confidence and garner trust from the manager.

Your marriage can even increase in happiness if you approach everyday as a blessing to be with them and have optimistic views for your future together.

Your wife or husband would feel happier if they get a sense of positivity and happiness from you instead of negative comments.

How Optimism Will Change Your Life - About Islam

5 Tips to Increase Optimism

Fake it until you make it. Even if you are unsure of your abilities, do your best and tell yourself that you can achieve success.

Keep trying, and do it with a smile. The more you believe you can achieve success, the more likely you are.

Avoid Negative/Pessimistic People As Much As You Can.

The social circles you choose to be in will impact your thought patterns and behaviours.

It is not easy to be an optimist in a room full of negative people.

Even your faith can be impacted by those you choose to keep as friends.

Man follows his friend’s religion, you should be careful who you take as friends.

[At-Tirmidhi and Abu Dawud]

Focus on what you can change. I have always liked the expression:

“Don’t cry over spilled milk.“

Which simply means, if you can’t change something, then don’t let it bring down your mood.

Focus on the things you can positively impact, and let the rest go.

Eliminate negative self-talk. The next time you hear yourself saying “I can’t…,” stop yourself and rephrase that to “I can because…” or “I will try my best”.

This goes back to self-fulfilling prophecies; don’t set yourself up for failure by thinking you will not succeed before you even try.

Exercise gratitude daily. Every evening after Maghrib, take a moment to reflect on 3 positive things from your day.

Allow yourself to feel gratitude and say Alhamdulillah after each one.

Final Thoughts

We know that nothing is too difficult or out of grasp for Allah (most glorified and exalted). Taking time to really reflect on this reminds us that we can make duaa for anything as long as it is just and in line with our faith.

His command is only when He intends a thing that He says to it, “Be,” and it is.

[Quran 36:82]

How can we not feel optimism and hope when we are servants of the One Who created everything and has ultimate power over everything?


This article is from our archives.

About Monique Hassan
Monique Hassan graduated with honors in 2012 with her BSc in Psychology and a minor in Biology and is certified in Crisis Prevention and Intervention. She has years of professional as well as personal experience with trauma, relationship struggles, substance abuse, identifying coping skills, conflict resolution, community outreach, and overall mental health concerns. She is a professional writer specialized in Islamic Psychology and Behavioral Health. She is also a revert who took her shahada in 2015, Alhamdulillah. You can contact Sister Monique Hassan via her website ""