Marriage is a serious contract that every Muslim girl should take very seriously. Getting to know your potential spouse is very important in the first stage. The best way to know each other is to ask questions.
Here is a long list of essential questions to ask a potential husband:
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What is your age?
What is your country of residence?
What is your country of birth?
How would you describe yourself?
What are you looking for in a wife?
What do you do for a living?
What is the most thing you value in your life?
Have you been married before?
Do you have physical or mental health illness?
What is your concept of marriage?
What are your expectations of marriage?
What are your goals in life?
Why have you chosen me as a potential spouse?
What is the role of religion in your life?
What is your understanding of an Islamic marriage?
Are you an active person in the Muslim community?
Do you engage in any volunteering activities?
In your understanding, what is the role of a husband and what is the role of a wife?
Do you want to practice polygamy?
How is your relationship with your family?
Do you plan to have someone from your family live with you after marriage?
Do you have friends from the opposite sex?
What is the level of your friendship?
How do you spend money?
How do you save money?
What do you do in your free time?
How do you make your decisions?
How do you express anger?
How do you think marital disputes should be resolved?
Define mental, verbal and emotional abuse.
Are you willing to seek marital counseling if you felt the need?
Do you support the idea of a working wife?
Do you expect your wife to share financial responsibility with you?