In this video, sister Naaila gives some very useful practical advice on how to communicate with your children so that they listen to you.
You will hear advice such as
Find your child’s “currency“—something that, when you take it away they would want to earn. Let them earn it back from you.
Reward them when they do a great job.
Have a “contract” with them: if they do X, they will get Z as a reward.
Work your household as a “family projects“. Look forward to win-win decisions with your children.
Give them specific criteria.