A Man Wants to Marry Me, But I Don’t Love Him

29 July, 2021
Q Those men who want to marry me immediately, I don't feel anything for them. Those who want to marry me and I feel the same later withdraw back or something comes up.

I am 28. I have someone who wants to marry me, but again I don't love him even a bit. However, my parents and siblings are forcing me to accept him. I need your advice.

Answer

Salam Alaikum,

In this counseling video, you will learn:

Marriage should not be a force.

Take the middle ground: do not reject someone because you do not like him for the first meeting. Give him a chance and get to know him.

Trust in Allah that He will give you the best.

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About Hannah Morris
Hannah Morris is a mum of 4 and she currently works as Counsellor and Instructor of BSc. Psychology at the Islamic Online University (IOU). She obtained her MA degree in Psychology and has over 10 years of experience working in health and social care settings in the UK, USA, and Ireland. Check out her personal Facebook page, ActiveMindCare, that promotes psychological well-being in the Ummah. (www.facebook.com/activemindcare)