31 March, 2024
Q
I've friends who tease me. Say that my expressions, attitude etc. are not right etc. They even blame me saying that I am rude even when I would have thought/did nothing. They constantly backbite others too. But sometimes they act /behave in super sweet way and their behavior is making me confused. Finally, they're like, I am the rude one there. But actually, I am afraid to even defend myself because they may shout back or even cut ties with me and talk bad about me. How to deal with them? Is it permissible to totally ignore them?
Answer
Backbiting, gossiping, and insulting others are not acceptable in Islam.
If your friends constantly engage in these sins and confuse you with their behavior, it’s better to avoid them and seek healthier companionship.
This does not mean being rude. You can still maintain the greetings and a kind attitude while not choosing them as close friends.
Walk away and, with time, you will find other people who value real friendship and accept and respect you for who you are.
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