It’s been a long time I am going through with this situation and don't know what to do.
There is a girl which I like for the sake of Allah almighty and wanted to do nikkah with her want to spend my time with her in halal way.
Unfortunately, when I talked with my family، they rejected her saying that she is out of our caste. Worst part is they didn't even bother to see how she looks or how her family is. My family started talking on me that I am not a good person, even when I pray before Allah Almighty, they say in front of me that your prayers are not going to be answers and if I pray late or do any other tasbih they say you are doing Amal and it’s not going to happen we will not accept her.
Sometimes I feel very helpless. I feel very sad when my own family say that your prayers your namaz and tasbih is just fake. They even say just go to her leave us.
But still, I make Dua for her every time believing on Allah Almighty that he will give me her with his mercy. Please tell me what to do I really want to marry her in halal way.
Answer
Parents usually want the best for their children, although sometimes they have their own idea about what the best is. Even if their kids are adults and supposed to make their own decisions.
As long as your goals and choices are in line with the teachings of Islam, there should be no obstacle on their side.
So, if you make sure that you base your decision on religious criteria, you should be able to get along with your plan. This doesn’t mean disrespecting your parents.
Finally, it is your marriage, and you will be the one who lives with your future spouse.
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