In this counseling answer:
“I would kindly suggest dear sister that you attempt to block these “conversations/thoughts” as much as possible. seek out counseling as well as scholarly Islamic guidance regarding this situation before it goes too far.”
As-Salamu ‘Alaykum sister,
Thank you for writing us. While I am familiar with twin flames and soulmates, my knowledge on whatever telepathic experiences you are having is limited. I am not even sure that these concepts are acceptable in Islam. As I am not an Islamic scholar, please contact our Ask the Scholar section.
Possibly what you have been experiencing is a strong desire for this boy. This desire is so strong that your mind has started to believe all these thoughts are from him and that the sensations are real – when in fact they are not.
Another Islamic response to these experiences is that of the whisperings of the Shaitan. Shaitan can get into our feelings and make us think and feel all kinds of things if we are not careful.
I would kindly suggest dear sister that you attempt to block these “conversations/thoughts” as much as possible. When they start happening, imagine a big red stop sign in your mind. Then make du’aa’ to Allah (swt) to help them go away and seek refuge in Allah (swt) from Shaitan.
While you may be comfortable with these conversations and experiences (with the exception of the kissing), I would kindly suggest that you seek out an evaluation from a counselor in your area to rule out any mental health issues that may be causing these emotions and physical feelings.
Dear sister, please write to our “Ask the Scholar” section for a more Islamic perspective on what you are going through in regards to the whisperings and the feelings of being kissed. While some people may have spiritual connections, this one certainly is not a good one. This is not of Allah’s (swt) blessings as it involves haram innovations and thoughts.
I would seriously re-think your position on this dear sister and seek out counseling as well as scholarly Islamic guidance regarding this situation before it goes too far. I am sorry I could not be more of a help. The best I can offer you is to follow up as soon as possible Islamically as well as psychologically.
We wish you the best.
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