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In the Name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful.
All praise and thanks are due to Allah, and peace and blessings be upon His Messenger.
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In Islam, cleanliness and avoiding unpleasant odors are mutual obligations between spouses. Both husband and wife are required to act with kindness and consideration, avoiding anything that causes discomfort or harm to the other.
Responding to your question, Sheikh Ahmad Kutty, a senior lecturer and an Islamic scholar at the Islamic Institute of Toronto, Ontario, Canada, states:
Mutual Rights and Kind Treatment Between Spouses in Islam
Islam encourages spouses to embody mutual love, respect, and care. The Quran states, {They (wives) have rights similar to those over them, in kindness.} (Al-Baqarah 2:228)
Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) affirmed, “The best of you are those who are best to their wives” (At-Tirmidhi).
Kindness, patience, and respect are obligations for both partners, not mere favors.
Cleanliness and Avoiding Harmful Odors as a Shared Obligation
Cleanliness and consideration are essential for both individuals. Advice on avoiding unpleasant odors or preparing for intimacy applies equally to husbands and wives.
The Prophet (peace be upon him) valued cleanliness and disdained foul smells, declaring, “Cleanliness is half of faith” (Muslim).
Maintaining good hygiene, fresh breath, and a thoughtful appearance is a shared responsibility.
Islam Rejects Double Standards in Marital Responsibilities
Islam rejects double standards. Both spouses are responsible for fostering comfort, respect, and affection; neglect that leads to distress contradicts Islamic principles.
Communication should remain gentle and open, with each partner supporting the other in developing good habits. Issues should be addressed with kindness rather than blame. Allah “placed between you affection and mercy” (Ar-Rum 30:21).
May your marriage be characterized by cleanliness, compassion, and tranquility.
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Almighty Allah knows best.