06 June, 2017
Q
Assalam wa alaikum. I am married for 17 years and have three children. Three months ago, I did second marriage, with a divorced woman and a mother of three, abroad. My marriage was disclosed in Pakistan after a few days, which i did not deny. It has been three months now, my first wife is not coming to terms with it. My second wife is still abroad. I have tried every way to relax and calm my first wife, I have even taken her to a psychiatrist, at her own request, but that is not working either. My first wife at times gets very normal and talks favorably about my second wife, but then again after a few days starts again. My first wife had demanded a divorce from me many times now, and also has demanded, that either divorce me or divorce the second wife. I am at loss, how to handle her, I have tried everything. She has been using citalopram and resperidone for the past month, but it does not seem to work either.
Answer
As-Salamu ‘Aleikom,
In this video, you will learn about:
Should a second marriage be disclosed in the family?
What should be down when a husband decides to marry another wife
What does a first wife feel and how to help her accept her husband’s new wife
Salam,
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