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After Hajj, I Feel The Need to Help Refugees

03 July, 2023
Q Since I made Hajj, I have returned with an immense sense of not only enlightenment and closeness to Allah (SWT), but also feelings of guilt and responsibility for all the refugees who suffer and wash ashore on countries who don't want them. How can I help?

Answer


In this counseling answer:

• You may want to assist the refugees with food, water, assisting with employment, taking a family in your home for shelter and so on if you are in a location that is close to them.

• If you live far away, you may want to do a charity benefit, start a donation center for needed items such as food, clothes, and diapers and so on.

• You may also want to form a caravan of other Muslims who desire to travel to the location and assist.


As Salamu ‘Alaikum,

Thank you for your most important question. One of the goals of Hajj is to revive and/or create compassion and equality amongst Muslims.

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Sadly, in our world today, there are many injustices, devastations, and corrupt leaders. The state of our ummah is one that is critical.

Naturally, as your closeness to Allah (SWT) has increased, so has your sense of responsibility and feelings of guilt regarding those suffering, lost on shores in strange countries.

In fact, Hajj gives the universal spirit of Islam. People of all races, colors, and nationalities go there. They become one people without any class or distinction. They look alike and do the same things. The spirit of Hajj is to foster unity and universal brotherhood and sisterhood among the believers.

How can one experience the unity and brother/sisterhood of Hajj and go home not concerned for their sisters and brothers who are suffering?

Your feelings, in fact, are a healthy sign that your humanity, your compassion has awakened. It is a good thing.

While the suffering of the refugees (and other’s living under oppressive, unbearable regimes) may not be a direct result of what we personally did, it nonetheless is incumbent upon us as Muslims, as human beings to do what we can, no matter how small we may perceive the need to be. You may want to reflect upon the following hadiths:

“Allah does not show mercy to whoever does not show mercy to people.” (Tirmidhi)

Those who show mercy will be shown mercy by the Merciful [Lord.] Show mercy to those on earth, and He Who is in the heavens will show mercy to you.” (Abi Dawud)

As you can see, we are commanded to show mercy and love towards one another for the sake of Allah (swt) as well as trying to assist those in need. How one helps depends on your location, ability, and means.

You may want to assist the refugees with food, water, assisting with employment, taking a family in your home for shelter and so on if you are in a location that is close to them.

If you live far away, you may want to do a charity benefit, start a donation center for needed items such as food, clothes, and diapers and so on.

You may also want to form a caravan of other Muslims who desire to travel to the location and assist.

There are many ways to help. About Islam suggests raising awareness and educating others; collect donation from family and friends; volunteer at a humanitarian organization that is involved in helping the refugees; become a Foreign Language tutor to assist the refugees in learning the country’s language, or form a welcoming committee for refugee’s in your area.

While these are just some ways to help, there are others. Some Muslims are taking in refugee children who have lost their parents/family into their homes and going through the process of gaining legal rights to give them a permanent home and raise them in an Islamic environment.

Others are writing letters and petitions to governments demanding that they allow refugees to find safety, hospitality, and resources upon their shores.

Lastly, make du’aa’ to Allah (SWT) for du’aa’ is a powerful prayer.

“A Muslim is the brother of another Muslim – he does not wrong him nor does he forsake him when he is in a trouble; whosoever fulfills the needs of his brother, Allah fulfills his needs; whosoever removes distress from a believer, Allah removes from him one of the distresses of the Day of Resurrection; and whosoever conceals the faults of a Muslim, Allah will conceal his faults on the Day of Resurrection.” (Al-Bukhari)

You are in our prayers. May Allah (SWT) bless you and guide you in your endeavors to assist our displaced (refugee) and suffering sisters and brothers.

Salam,

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Disclaimer: The conceptualization and recommendations stated in this response are very general and purely based on the limited information provided in the question. In no event shall AboutIslam, its counselors or employees be held liable for any damages that may arise from your decision in the use of our services.

About Aisha Mohammad
Aisha has a PhD in psychology, an MS in public health and a PsyD. Aisha worked as a Counselor/Psychologist for 12 years at Geneva B. Scruggs Community Health Care Center in New York. She has worked with clients with mental health issues such as anxiety, depression, panic disorder, trauma, and OCD. She also facilitated support groups and provided specialized services for victims of domestic violence, HIV positive individuals, as well youth/teen issues. Aisha is certified in Mindfulness, Trauma Informed Care, Behavioral Management, Restorative Justice/ Healing Circles, Conflict Resolution, Mediation, and Confidentiality & Security. Aisha is also a Certified Life Coach, and Relationship Workshop facilitator. Aisha has a part-time Life Coaching practice in which she integrates the educational concepts of stress reduction, mindfulness, introspection, empowerment, self love and acceptance and spirituality to create a holistic healing journey for clients. Aisha is also a part of several organizations that advocates for prisoner rights/reentry, social & food justice, as well as advocating for an end to oppression & racism. In her spare time, Aisha enjoys her family, photography, nature, martial arts classes, Islamic studies, volunteering/charity work, as well as working on her book and spoken word projects.