Q Are people guaranteed their destination (Jannah & Jahannam) in the hereafter? I read in a hadith that someone once asked the prophet PBUH a similar question and he answered that we would find it easy to do that which leads us to our designated place in either Hell or Heaven and that we should strive for the best instead of relying on pure luck. Can you please discuss this and explain points about it in detail?

Also, I face many family problems, but my greatest struggle is not being able to express myself to my closest friends and family. I always fear being judged and prefer to keep my thoughts to myself. I know that sometimes bottling up our emotions is scary and unhealthy, but honestly, for n, now that’s my only option.

Also, I have conflicting feelings in my heart whenever I confide in someone or cry or complain about my problems in life whenever I feel like no one is paying attention to what I’m saying. I feel sorry for myself because I don’t want to sound like I’m ungrateful to Allah in any way. I know the prophet like prophets Yaqub & Ayyub, alaihi salam, had strong resolve and extreme patience and did only confide in Allah about their problems, but I want to feel heard it’s different having a conversation with people and talking to ALLAH although Allah does always come first. I also read that prophet PBUH said that it’s better to share our problems with others (those whom we trust, of course) because it’s better and more rewarding than living a life of self-contemplation.

Can you help me with my conflicting feelings I’m confused about whether I should stay away from people to avoid their harm or be able to find people I can confide in and trust. I know it’s good to make dua but should I talk to trustworthy people about my problems?