It has been 3 years since my marriage. But I still feel no love for my husband, from that day till now. My marriage was completely at the will of my parents. I always think that I need a divorce from him. But I have no courage to present this in front of my parents and husband. I don't want to hurt anyone. I have often been depressed and tense. And I am confused whether I should continue this relationship or not. I don't know what to do. I know that if I say I can't stay with him, my closest everyone will hate me. Also, emotionally I am not a strong person, I will easily break down.
I don’t know what is the reason that I can’t love him. Once I just shared my problems with my sister, that time she just asked me what is your reason and what are the things you hate him. So, I just said I don’t know.
Answer
You might have been married for some time, but sometimes other issues, like work, children, or daily routines, take your focus away from getting to know your spouse on a deeper level.
But bonding is important to create a stronger connection and cultivate love for each other.
What can you do to fall in love with your spouse?
Date nights and joyful activities together would spark the atmosphere around you.
Leave your preconceptions about your spouse behind, and have a positive, friendly attitude.
Mutual, honest conversations about your needs and likes would help create bonds and care for each other.
What else can you try?
Click on the video to learn more!
More about marriage:
- Just Married, Why Am I Not Happy?
- Common Questions Asked by Newly Married Couples
- My Mother Tells Me: “Don’t Expect a Happy Marriage”
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