It has been 8 months now my wife is pregnant, I never wanted to have sexual intercourse with her, ......she is very simple and I don't like her face and she has no exposure and I feel she does not care of her body, I feel ashamed to go outing with her and all that...I did not want my wife to get pregnant but social pressure and parents forced me to do that.....now I’m frustrated, I got very weak but I could not stop thinking that why did I do that, why did not I end that time when we got engaged, all there questions frustrated me every day even while returning from office I do not feel happiness, do not wanna spend time with her, but I can’t divorce her.
Answer
Arranged marriages can be beautiful and well-functioning if the spouses agree to marry each other.
If you start doubting your initial likes, you have the right to change your mind or seek clarification of your feelings.
There are parents who are more pressing. But no matter what, you need to express what you really feel until it’s too late.
It is your marriage, not your parents’. Respect should be mutual and not one-sided. They also need to consider your choices and what really interests you.
After marrying, what options are left to deal with your unhappiness?
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