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My Mother Doesn’t Like My Wife; What to Do?

12 June, 2022
Q Assalamu alaikum, my mom hasn't liked my wife since I married. It’s been 7 years .Now my sister is also against my wife. But I am ok with my wife. They are making a lot of reasons throughout my marriage.

Now my sister had a WhatsApp argument with her and now they are talking to each other. I am in the middle of their fight and don’t know what to do. Now my wife told me not to talk to my sister anymore bcoz she literally hates anything in her. I cannot handle this. I'm completely helpless even when I talk to them. It's not working. What am I gonna do now?

Answer

Aisha Mohammad
12 June, 2022

Finding yourself in the middle of the fights between your wife and mother is quite distressing. 

If you have a good relationship with your wife, assure her of your  love, support, and understanding.

Try to speak with your mother and sister, and help them find out the source of this conflict. 

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It’s never too late to rectify past mistakes and confusions.

Remember your family members that  holding a grudge is not part of the Sunnah, and guide them towards a peaceful outcome. 

How to cope with a situation like this? Click here and find out more!

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About Aisha Mohammad
Aisha has a PhD in psychology, an MS in public health and a PsyD. Aisha worked as a Counselor/Psychologist for 12 years at Geneva B. Scruggs Community Health Care Center in New York. She has worked with clients with mental health issues such as anxiety, depression, panic disorder, trauma, and OCD. She also facilitated support groups and provided specialized services for victims of domestic violence, HIV positive individuals, as well youth/teen issues. Aisha is certified in Mindfulness, Trauma Informed Care, Behavioral Management, Restorative Justice/ Healing Circles, Conflict Resolution, Mediation, and Confidentiality & Security. Aisha is also a Certified Life Coach, and Relationship Workshop facilitator. Aisha has a part-time Life Coaching practice in which she integrates the educational concepts of stress reduction, mindfulness, introspection, empowerment, self love and acceptance and spirituality to create a holistic healing journey for clients. Aisha is also a part of several organizations that advocates for prisoner rights/reentry, social & food justice, as well as advocating for an end to oppression & racism. In her spare time, Aisha enjoys her family, photography, nature, martial arts classes, Islamic studies, volunteering/charity work, as well as working on her book and spoken word projects.