12 December, 2021
Q
I have been a Christian for years, I am slowly getting ready to pronounce Shahada, my wife is a super Christian and will not convert to Islam, but that is not the problem.
She has issues and is not affectionate. She is a wonderful person otherwise, dedicated, good, modest, honorable. She is scared to be close to me!!!
We have been married for 13 years. I pray five times a day and I am totally submitted to Allah to the best of my abilities. What do I do here!!! How can I see Allah make a difference in my marriage?
We were ministers together in Jamaica in the slums there risking our lives to bring the Gospel. She does not even really know about my intentions of joining Islam. That is not the issue.
She has personal problems. How do I as a submitter to Allah pray for this to get fixed? Will Allah fix this or is it my destiny Allah has for me? Let me know.
She has issues and is not affectionate. She is a wonderful person otherwise, dedicated, good, modest, honorable. She is scared to be close to me!!!
We have been married for 13 years. I pray five times a day and I am totally submitted to Allah to the best of my abilities. What do I do here!!! How can I see Allah make a difference in my marriage?
We were ministers together in Jamaica in the slums there risking our lives to bring the Gospel. She does not even really know about my intentions of joining Islam. That is not the issue.
She has personal problems. How do I as a submitter to Allah pray for this to get fixed? Will Allah fix this or is it my destiny Allah has for me? Let me know.
Answer
In this counseling video:
Allah can guide anyone to Islam.
Pray and ask Allah for guidance.
Identify what triggers her behavior.
Seek one on one professional counseling for her.
Salam,
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