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My Child Talks to His Toys, Is This Normal?

02 January, 2022
Q My son will be 7 year-old this month and he talks to his toys all the time.

He usually lined them all up and treats them like they are his class and he's the teacher. Is this normal?

Answer

In this counseling answer:

•What your son is doing is normal. It is called “modeling”.

•Your son is probably very bright as he is able to use his imagination, creativity, and real-life experiences to keep himself occupied.

•As long as your son has friends that he talks to, is expressive at home and is not socially withdrawn, you need not worry about this behavior.


As salamu alaykum,

Thank you for writing to us. Your question brought back many memories of my daughters doing that! They also had tea parties with their dolls and talked to them like they were real friends. My son also did this with his action figures.

He would line them up and talk to them about a “mission” they were going to be sent on.

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Soon paper airplanes were flying through the living room and different voices would be chiming in on the action as my son would create voices for his “friends”.

My Child Talks to His Toys, Is This Normal? - About Islam

All my children had wonderful times such as these and are now well adjusted, intelligent young adults!

What your son is doing is normal. It is called “modeling”. What he is doing is modeling behaviors that he has seen either in school or at home or in some other educational setting.

In fact, your son is probably very bright as he is able to use his imagination, creativity, and real-life experiences to keep himself occupied.

As long as your son has friends that he talks to, is expressive at home and is not socially withdrawn, you need not worry about this behavior. It is just a normal play for an intelligent and creative young child.

Enjoy it while it lasts!

Salaam

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Aisha has a PhD in psychology, an MS in public health and a PsyD. Aisha worked as a Counselor/Psychologist for 12 years at Geneva B. Scruggs Community Health Care Center in New York. She has worked with clients with mental health issues such as anxiety, depression, panic disorder, trauma, and OCD. She also facilitated support groups and provided specialized services for victims of domestic violence, HIV positive individuals, as well youth/teen issues. Aisha is certified in Mindfulness, Trauma Informed Care, Behavioral Management, Restorative Justice/ Healing Circles, Conflict Resolution, Mediation, and Confidentiality & Security. Aisha is also a Certified Life Coach, and Relationship Workshop facilitator. Aisha has a part-time Life Coaching practice in which she integrates the educational concepts of stress reduction, mindfulness, introspection, empowerment, self love and acceptance and spirituality to create a holistic healing journey for clients. Aisha is also a part of several organizations that advocates for prisoner rights/reentry, social & food justice, as well as advocating for an end to oppression & racism. In her spare time, Aisha enjoys her family, photography, nature, martial arts classes, Islamic studies, volunteering/charity work, as well as working on her book and spoken word projects.