Q My husband of 6 years recently told me that he had cheated on me about 1-2 years ago. We have a young daughter and I just found out that I am pregnant. We have had a rocky, but strong relationship. I am not the sexual type of woman, I mean I do enjoy sex, but being together with my husband once a week is totally enough for me, although I try to force myself to have it more as my husband desires it more. I also have long menses period, which feels like a good break from the pressure of having sex. This is the reason, according to him, that he cheated on me with a girl at work. He said it did start to get emotional & they decided to end it. He also said that he never would have left me for her. On one hand, I feel like I never want to see him again. On the other hand, I feel like a failure. But what could I do when I simply do not desire more sex? And now I am pregnant again. We’re currently separated, it was a mutual decision to do so. What’s next? Do you have any advice? I love him, and I know it was my fault too, but I just cannot look at him. I imagine him being with another woman, I feel like I want to vomit. How can i change myself and how can we move on from this crisis? Your advice is really appreciated!