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I Can’t Forget My Non-Muslim Boyfriend

I Can’t Forget My Non-Muslim Boyfriend

In this counseling answer: • He is not a Muslim. Therefore, he is not halal for you to marry. • Should he accept Islam because he truly believes it is the one true religion, then he would be permissible for marriage. • While our parents support, help and blessings are vital in the marriage process, …

I Can’t Stop Committing Zina with a Girl; Please Help!

I Can’t Stop Committing Zina with a Girl; Please Help!

In this counseling answer: • As you can see brother, this is a very powerful connection and that is why (in part) it is strictly confined to the marriage relationship. • Seek repentance from Allah, ask for His forgiveness, and promise yourself you’ll never do it again. • Focus your mind and your thoughts on …

I Like Every Girl I Talk To; Is This Normal?

I Like Every Girl I Talk To; Is This Normal?

In this counseling answer: • What you are feeling may not necessarily be an attraction towards those girls but could even be a self-exploration phase for you. • I would suggest that you stay away from friends who may pressure you or make you feel bad for not having any girlfriends. • If you continue …

I Don’t Feel I Love Her Anymore

In this counseling answer: • As harsh as this may sound, 85% of “love” experienced by the teenage mind is infatuation. • It is necessary that both the spouses be on the same level when it comes to religion. • Distract your thoughts by spending time with friends/playing sports/family, finding yourself a career goal, or …

Due to My Haram Relationship, Family Forces Me to Leave College

Due to My Haram Relationship, Family Forces Me to Leave College

In this counseling answer: • I would kindly suggest that you sit down with your parents and discuss your concerns about having to do your schooling over again. • You could maybe check into other schools to see if there could be a full transfer. • Another option would be to take a break and …

I’m in Love with a Non-Muslim Guy; What Shall I Do?

I’m in Love with a Non-Muslim Guy; What Shall I Do?

In this counseling answer: • Please, understand these protective rules of marriage are not isolated to Islam and your family; his own family would most likely not be in favor of this relationship either. • Cut the connection. • Identify your coping skills. • Find true love in worshipping Allah. • Make a vow today …

Shall We Get Married Behind Our Parents’ Back?

Shall We Get Married Behind Our Parents’ Back?

In this counseling answer: • If you feel comfortable, you could just be completely honest with your parents about why you feel you cannot and should not wait to get married. • Try to take some time also to understand their concerns as parents. They want what’s best for you. • Perhaps you could arrange meetings …

I Broke Up with My Boyfriend; I Feel Miserable

In this counseling answer: • You can use your experience to learn and create a better and more positive experience for the future. • When you are ready to seek marriage, do things in the correct way right from the start. • Remember that he also had his own part to play in this and …

Daughter Talks Too Much About Love

Daughter Talks Too Much About Love

In this counseling answer: •I recommend asking your daughter the reasons she hesitates to play with boys. Having modesty is a good thing. She may feel confused about playing with boys and having appropriate boundaries. •Clear up misconceptions she may have. Ask what she believes is the best engagement between boys and girls. Wa ‘ Alaykum Salaam, …

I Fell in Love with My Physiotherapist

I Fell in Love with My Physiotherapist

In this counseling answer: • You should have just let it go and accepted her answer. • I would also encourage you to attend the Masjid as often as you can for prayers. • Make istikharah prayer regarding the woman your parents have suggested. • Begin to write down a list of emotions describing how …



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