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I Like a Guy on Campus; What to Do?

I Like a Guy on Campus; What to Do?

In this counseling answer: • You need to choose to do something beyond fantasying and assuming what could be in your mind. If you can interact with this brother on campus in appropriate settings, this can give you a better sense of who he actually is and give him a chance to know you. • …

Are Intimate Relationships Allowed in Ramadan?

I Wish to Marry Someone, but My Parents Disapprove Him

In this counseling answer: •If the man is Islamically acceptable for you to marry, you are free to marry him regardless of what your parents say. •Tribalism, racism, and seeking one with a lot of money are not valid reasons to deny marriage. •He was not born into Islam but made a conscious decision to …

A Girl with Drug Problems; I Want to Help by Marrying Her

A Girl with Drug Problems; I Want to Help by Marrying Her

In this counseling answer: •With that said, should you marry her, you may be in for a very long road of possible caretaking, mistrust, and traumatic experiences should she relapse during a recovery. •If you want to help her, brother, please do suggest that she gets mental health and substance abuse counseling as soon as …

How Can I Tell My Parents I Want to Get Married?

How Can I Tell My Parents I Want to Get Married?

In this counseling answer: •It is a natural desire and process to seek marriage when one is of age and ready. •If you feel shy to speak to your parents, you may wish to write a letter that you can then read to them. •I’ll kindly suggest as well to bring up points about marriage …

I’m Obese; I Fear Getting Intimate with My Future Wife

I’m Obese; I Fear Getting Intimate with My Future Wife

In this counseling answer: •Your concern is a common one among men of all ages who are overweight. However, the concern does not exceed into excessive worrying. •Brother, people cheat for all types of reasons. In a truly loving relationship with trust and good communication and Islamic principles, cheating is less likely to occur. •Make …

How to Stop Loving Someone Who Doesn't Love You

How to Stop Loving Someone Who Doesn't Love You

In this counseling answer: • When you are thinking of marriage, you need to consider the person’s piety above everything else. • You should not even think about proposing to him because he is already in another relationship. • I would also advise you to read and listen to lectures about marriage. • I would …

Marrying a Revert with a Different Understanding of Islam

Marrying a Revert with a Different Understanding of Islam

In this counseling answer: You should go slow with her when it comes to giving her all the information about Islam. She needs an exceptionally good amount of emotional support from individuals in the community to feel empowered as a Muslim. She can change and become a better Muslim, but it can’t be done with …

A Disabled Muslimah: “How Can I Deal with My Sexual Desires?”

A Disabled Muslimah: “How Can I Deal with My Sexual Desires?”

In this counseling answer: • Seek a husband without allowing your preconceived ideas about what all men are looking to prevent you from trying. • Whether you do or do not find a spouse, you are still in receipt of contact reward for enduring the trial that you face with your deteriorating health and that …

I’m Scared to Get Married to a Middle-Easterner

I’m Scared to Get Married to a Middle-Easterner

In this counseling answer: • It is not right for parents to reject a marriage based on ethnicity. • Every marriage is a cross-cultural relationship because no two people are alike personality-wise. • I suggest that the two of you not get married UNTIL this young man tries to convince his parents that what they are …

I’m in Love with an Engaged Girl

In this counseling answer: •Consider how you standing in the way could affect things for her. •I would encourage you to cut any contact with her for now aside from that which is necessary for work purposes as you can see how this has led to the development of intense feelings. •Start a marriage in …



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