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She Has a Sinful Past; Shall I Marry Her?

She Has a Sinful Past; Shall I Marry Her?

In this counseling answer: • Only marry her if you truly recognize that her past is no better than yours. • You need to get your relationship right with Allah (swt) and start keeping your daily prayers. As-Salamu ‘Alaykum dear brother, It seems you are in a dilemma. First, you were friends with this girl, …

A Disabled Muslimah: “How Can I Deal with My Sexual Desires?”

A Disabled Muslimah: “How Can I Deal with My Sexual Desires?”

In this counseling answer: • Seek a husband without allowing your preconceived ideas about what all men are looking to prevent you from trying. • Whether you do or do not find a spouse, you are still in receipt of contact reward for enduring the trial that you face with your deteriorating health and that …

How to Stop Loving Someone Who Doesn't Love You

How to Stop Loving Someone Who Doesn't Love You

In this counseling answer: • When you are thinking of marriage, you need to consider about the person’s piety above everything else. • You should not even think about proposing to him because he is already in another relationship. • I would also advise you to read and listen to lectures about marriage. • I …

After a Breakup, How Can I Win Her Heart Back?

After a Breakup, How Can I Win Her Heart Back?

Salam Aleikom, In this counseling video, you will learn: • Ask Allah for guidance • Be clear about your plan, your vision for your future • Ask yourself: why do you want to marry her? Also, what will you bring to her life? *** Watch More: Disclaimer: The conceptualization and recommendations stated in …

I Dream of a Girl; Shall I Marry Her?

I Dream of a Girl; Shall I Marry Her?

In this counseling answer: “Be aware that having a relationship with a girl outside of marriage is not permissible in Islam. It may be affecting your reflections of your dream.” As-Salamu Alaikum Wa Rahmatullah Wa Barakatuh, I am not trained in dream interpretation. So, I cannot advise directly on this. You could take this to …

Parents Put Off Our Marriage; I Can’t Accept This!

Parents Put Off Our Marriage; I Can't Accept This!

In this counseling answer: • Another is that when we plan to get married to somebody and we talked to them over long periods of time, we get close to them. We get emotionally attached. This is one of the reasons why it is better to not do a lot of talking except for the …

Marrying My Sister-in-Law's Brother Would Cause Trouble in The Family?

Marrying My Sister-in-Law's Brother Would Cause Trouble in The Family?

In this counseling answer: If Allah (swt) has willed that you both get married, you will. No matter who tries to stop it from happening. Let this be a time for you to reflect what you want in a spouse. Salamu ‘Alaikum Sister, Thank you for sending us your question. I am sorry to hear about …

Is it Wrong to Have an Imaginary Husband?

Is it Wrong to Have an Imaginary Husband?

In this counseling answer: • Any thoughts of being with another man (even if she married a real husband), whilst undesirable, is not haram. • She needs to seek some professional psychiatric help or ruqya. • She needs to consider that her real spouse may not meet up to all the standards of her imaginary spouse. As-Salamu …

Want to Marry a Sunni Guy: How to Convince My Shi’a Parents?

Want to Marry a Sunni Guy: How to Convince My Shi’a Parents?

In this counseling answer: • You can respectfully decline a request from your parents or show them kindness and care without obeying them. • It is important to discuss with the brother your future family culture. • In making this decision independently, you must realize it may come with consequences of damaging family ties. As-Salamu …

His Parents Want for Him a Syed Girl, Not Me

His Parents Want for Him a Syed Girl, Not Me

In this counseling answer: • Let him know what your feelings are regarding his mother’s refusal and discuss how the both of you want to handle this situation. • Know yourself and what you are willing to do for this relationship. Salamu ‘Alaikum Sister, Thank you for sending us your question. I am sorry to …



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