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Ready for Marriage, but Scared to Have Sex

Ready for Marriage, but Scared to Have Sex

In this counseling answer: • Do some research on this matter and educate yourself. • Having sexual intercourse with your spouse is counted as sadaqa (charity) in Islam. • The marital relationship is to be established on a basis of mutual understanding, compassion, and love. Salam ‘Alaikum, Thank you for sharing your problem with us. I can understand …

Only After His Sister’s Wedding Can He Marry Me

Only After His Sister’s Wedding Can He Marry Me

In this counseling answer: • Make istikharah prayer. • Parents can at best only offer you advice or suggestions based on their own personal experience or preferences. As-Salaamu ‘Alaikum, First of all, I am so happy for you for several reasons. One: you overcame your fear of men and marriage. Two: you found a man (and, …

I Like a Non-Practicing Muslim: Shall I Marry Her?

I Like a Non-Practicing Muslim: Shall I Marry Her?

In this counseling answer: • What are the qualities that you love about her? List them on a piece of paper. • Clearly talk to her and show your interest (while involving your and her parents). • Inshallah, you will be able to help her practice the religion in a more efficient way. Wa ‘Alaikum Salaam, Your …

His Parents Want for Him a Syed Girl, Not Me

His Parents Want for Him a Syed Girl, Not Me

In this counseling answer: • Let him know what your feelings are regarding his mother’s refusal and discuss how the both of you want to handle this situation. • Know yourself and what you are willing to do for this relationship. Salamu ‘Alaikum Sister, Thank you for sending us your question. I am sorry to …

Want to Marry a Sunni Guy: How to Convince My Shi’a Parents?

Want to Marry a Sunni Guy: How to Convince My Shi’a Parents?

In this counseling answer: • You can respectfully decline a request from your parents or show them kindness and care without obeying them. • It is important to discuss with the brother your future family culture. • In making this decision independently, you must realize it may come with consequences of damaging family ties. As-Salamu …

Is it Wrong to Have an Imaginary Husband?

Is it Wrong to Have an Imaginary Husband?

In this counseling answer: • Any thoughts of being with another man (even if she married a real husband), whilst undesirable, is not haram. • She needs to seek some professional psychiatric help or ruqya. • She needs to consider that her real spouse may not meet up to all the standards of her imaginary spouse. As-Salamu …

Marrying My Sister-in-Law's Brother Would Cause Trouble in The Family?

Marrying My Sister-in-Law's Brother Would Cause Trouble in The Family?

In this counseling answer: If Allah (swt) has willed that you both get married, you will. No matter who tries to stop it from happening. Let this be a time for you to reflect what you want in a spouse. Salamu ‘Alaikum Sister, Thank you for sending us your question. I am sorry to hear about …

I Dream of a Girl; Shall I Marry Her?

I Dream of a Girl; Shall I Marry Her?

In this counseling answer: “Be aware that having a relationship with a girl outside of marriage is not permissible in Islam. It may be affecting your reflections of your dream.” As-Salamu Alaikum Wa Rahmatullah Wa Barakatuh, I am not trained in dream interpretation. So, I cannot advise directly on this. You could take this to …

Afraid of Marrying the Man I Love

Afraid of Marrying the Man I Love

In this counseling answer: “Besides your dream – if I had not heard about your dream –, I would still be emphatic that you leave this man immediately and definitely not marry him because he fornicates and adulterated your committed relationship. He was violent with you and could potentially be violent with his future children.” As-Salaamu …

Reading Istikhara Signal in Marriage Proposals

Reading Istikhara Signal in Marriage Proposals

In this counseling answer: “Istikhara isn’t meant to be a clear signal; it is a way to seek Allah’s blessings and ask Him to make things easier. Your confusion, in my opinion, indicates that the second proposal isn’t in your best interest.” Wa `Alaykum As-Salaam dear sister, Thank you for your question. If you read your question …



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