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Fiancée Refuses to Talk About Feelings

Fiancée Refuses to Talk About Feelings

In this counseling answer: “I would highly suggest that you talk to her about your feelings regarding this matter. Talk about it directly and honestly. There is no shame in discussing your feelings with a potential spouse as long as it is done respectfully.” As-Salamu ‘Alaykum Brother, Thank you for sending us your question. It seems …

What Can I Do with My High Sexual Desires?

What Can I Do with My High Sexual Desires?

In this counseling video: • Until you get married, I will kindly suggest that when these feelings come upon you, you engage in an activity to get your mind off what your body is feeling. • What is important is drawing closer to Allah, reciting Qur’an and doing dhikr. As salaam alaikum sister, Thank you …

Do You Need a Wife or a Maid?

Do You Need a Wife or a Maid?

In this counseling: “To clarify further, a wife is not a maid. Her main responsibilities are absolutely not to cook, clean, and complete household chores. A wife is a committed partner whom you will share your life with – the good and the bad. As husband and wife, both of you were created to protect, love, …

She was Forced to Marry; I'm Still Waiting for Her

She was Forced to Marry; I'm Still Waiting for Her

In this counseling answer: “Whilst forced marriage is unacceptable in Islam, she is still legally married and, therefore, currently impermissible for you. Even if she can divorce, you will then need to wait the period of ‘iddah before you can ask for her hand in marriage.” Wa ‘Alaikum Salaam wa Rahmatulahi wa Barakatuh dear brother, This is …

I Want to Marry This Guy, but My Parents Don’t Take Him Serious

I Want to Marry This Guy, but My Parents Don’t Take Him Serious

In this counseling answer: “My advice to you would be to have a serious and deep discussion with your parents about this issue. Ask them to listen to you and give you your time to talk about all your thoughts and feelings about this man and getting married to him as well as your feelings of …

Want to Get Married, but We're Still in College

Want to Get Married, but We're Still in College

In this counseling answer: “Since you say you are ready to discuss the proposal with your family, you might go to them first. If there is someone in your family whom you feel particularly comfortable with, approach him first and explain the situation. This will help you to feel comfortable to discuss the matter with other family …

I Still Hope My Ex-Girlfriend Will Come Back to Me

I Still Hope My Ex-Girlfriend Will Come Back to Me

In this counseling answer: • What you can do is to repent and ask Allah to forgive you for the mistakes you have made and promise never to do it again. • You cannot force anyone to stay and love you or force them to practice Islam. It’s a personal choice and a commitment. • …

Before Marriage, How to Know She is Religious?

Before Marriage, How to Know She is Religious?

In this counseling answer: “The best you can really achieve is to be clear about yourself, what you stand for, and what you are seeking in the woman you would marry. Then make your desires clear and talk about this with her to see if she is also on the same page as you are about …

Marry Me or Not? My Fiancé is Confused

Marry Me or Not? My Fiancé is Confused

In this counseling answer: • Feeling guilty may be the reason he feels this way. Perhaps he felt that there was not enough advocacy done for the marriage. • As long as you sought Allah’s forgiveness and repented, you need to move forward. • Don’t delay the marriage; talk to your parents. • Even though …

Will We Be Sexually Compatible After Marriage?

Will We Be Sexually Compatible After Marriage?

In this counseling answer: “Take your time to talk to him more, have few meetings with him in person in a safe space, get to know his family, and let him know yours. I strongly advise you to keep your du’aa’ and let God lead your decision. If everything seems easy in order for you and …



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