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What to Do When Your Husband's Ex-Wife Dominates

What to Do When Your Husband's Ex-Wife Dominates

In this counseling answer: “I would kindly suggest that once you are clear on a husband and wife’s responsibilities in an Islamic marriage, you sit with your husband when things are calm. Please bring up the points of both his and your responsibility in this marriage as Muslims. Ask him if he is able to …

I Can’t be a Mother; Am I Worthless?

I Can’t be a Mother; Am I Worthless?

In this counseling answer: “When we let fear determine our actions we walk ourselves into situations where we feel resentment, bitterness, and despair. We are clinging to a situation that cannot change and breaks our hearts over and over again. You need to determine what’s right with your heart and not let fear move you.” As-Salamu …

Wife Talks Bad about Me & My Family Behind My Back

Wife Talks Bad about Me & My Family Behind My Back

In this counseling answer: “As a last resort before contemplating divorce, it might be a good idea to seek counselling, ideally with both families present. It is advisable also for you and your wife to attend couple counselling, but since the influence of your families will also be there, it may be more helpful to have both families …

I Found Out My Wife Suffers from Multiple Personality Disorder

I Found Out My Wife Suffers from Multiple Personality Disorder

In this counseling answer: “Try to give things a chance first. Try to understand things from her side and support her through her difficulties. Maybe the love between you will strengthen as you realize the daily struggles she faces. If you still feel too betrayed by her and her family after this time and you feel you …

My Husband Has Never Been Able to Provide for Us

My Husband Has Never Been Able to Provide for Us

In this counseling answer: “Sister, you have to do some searching in your own heart to determine if you want to continue on with this marriage. As you are with your parents now, take this time to heal, to rest, to try to figure out what it is that you truly want. Ideally, I imagine you …

I'm Not Good Enough for My Husband

I'm Not Good Enough for My Husband

In this counseling answer: “I would kindly recommend that whatever your decision is, you get counseling to deal with the stress and sadness you have been going through. Start your journal insha’Allah for clarification.  Delegate chores and some of the bills to your children. Seek refuge in Allah and spend social times with uplifting Muslim …

After Having a Baby, Husband Isn’t Interested in Me

After Having a Baby, Husband Isn’t Interested in Me

In this counseling answer: “On the one hand, I’m encouraging you to be a little less available. Keep yourself busy fulfilling meaningful goals for your own life and expanding the positive relationships you have in your life with friends. So, all of your free time isn’t invested in focusing on what you aren’t getting from …

How Can I Save My Marriage & Help My Narcissist Husband?

How Can I Save My Marriage & Help My Narcissist Husband?

In this counseling answer: “What you are seeing may be a result of the abuse he has been through. I would tell him that you would like to save the marriage if possible but only on the condition that he gets counseling and begins to work on his issues. If your husband does not want to …

How to Deal with My Husband’s Mid-Life Crisis?

How to Deal with My Husband’s Mid-Life Crisis?

As-Salamu ‘ Aleikom, In this video, you will learn: Does culture play an important role in marriage? How to handle a controlling husband? How to help your husband overcome his mid-life crisis? Salam, *** Disclaimer: The conceptualization and recommendations stated in this response are very general and purely based on the limited information provided in the …

Husband Refuses to Provide for Our Financial Needs

Husband Refuses to Provide for Our Financial Needs

In this counseling answer: ” It is important to take time to consider the impact that leaving your husband could have on your daughter. Consider also the impact that staying in a stressful relationship will also have. It may be that a little more patience is needed in supporting him to fulfill his role, but …



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