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I'm Not Good Enough for My Husband

I'm Not Good Enough for My Husband

In this counseling answer: “I would kindly recommend that whatever your decision is, you get counseling to deal with the stress and sadness you have been going through. Start your journal insha’Allah for clarification.  Delegate chores and some of the bills to your children. Seek refuge in Allah and spend social times with uplifting Muslim …

After Having a Baby, Husband Isn’t Interested in Me

After Having a Baby, Husband Isn’t Interested in Me

In this counseling answer: “On the one hand, I’m encouraging you to be a little less available. Keep yourself busy fulfilling meaningful goals for your own life and expanding the positive relationships you have in your life with friends. So, all of your free time isn’t invested in focusing on what you aren’t getting from …

How Can I Save My Marriage & Help My Narcissist Husband?

How Can I Save My Marriage & Help My Narcissist Husband?

In this counseling answer: “What you are seeing may be a result of the abuse he has been through. I would tell him that you would like to save the marriage if possible but only on the condition that he gets counseling and begins to work on his issues. If your husband does not want to …

How to Deal with My Husband’s Mid-Life Crisis?

How to Deal with My Husband’s Mid-Life Crisis?

As-Salamu ‘ Aleikom, In this video, you will learn: Does culture play an important role in marriage? How to handle a controlling husband? How to help your husband overcome his mid-life crisis? Salam, *** Disclaimer: The conceptualization and recommendations stated in this response are very general and purely based on the limited information provided in the …

Husband Refuses to Provide for Our Financial Needs

Husband Refuses to Provide for Our Financial Needs

In this counseling answer: ” It is important to take time to consider the impact that leaving your husband could have on your daughter. Consider also the impact that staying in a stressful relationship will also have. It may be that a little more patience is needed in supporting him to fulfill his role, but …

I Have No Feelings for My Husband

In this counseling answer: “Think about the following things; What do you love about him? What did you love about him? Remember good times you had together. Why/when did you lose the spark? Is there an underlying cause? (Too much time at work? Don’t feel appreciated? Since you had kids? boredom?) Identifying the root cause …

Husband Puts Parents Before Me

Husband Puts Parents Before Me

In this counseling answer: “When people say “failed marriage”, it comes with a dose of shame. A failed marriage doesn’t mean that you failed at all which is what a woman who has gone through a divorce or is considering divorce often feels.” As-Salamu ‘ Aleikom, Thank you for your question and reaching out for some …

Struggling to Stay in Polygamy

In this counseling answer: “Polygamy is a very difficult lifestyle, and not every woman – and certainly not every man – is cut out for it. You have two options before you: remain in your marriage or leave your marriage. You need to think about what you want from life – as a Muslim, as a woman, as a …

Feeling Hopeless in My Abusive Marriage

Feeling Hopeless in My Abusive Marriage

In this counseling answer: “You are advised to remain patient with the situation, but also keep within boundaries that do not allow you or your children to be victims of abuse Understanding why those around you behave the way they are can help to ease the emotional burden on you and make for clearer thinking …

Since We Had a Child, Husband Has Become Abusive

Since We Had a Child, Husband Has Become Abusive

In this counseling answer: The first thing to do is trying to save the marriage. Both husband and wife should change their behaviors and reactions to ones which are more healthy and conducive towards rebuilding the love they had. Seeking the help of a marriage counselor and the local imam would also be important. If nothing works, …



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