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I Can't Stop Cheating on My Wife

I Can't Stop Cheating on My Wife

In this counseling answer: “Every time you cheat on your wife, you cheat on all the Muslims. The Ummah has enough problems and wants the mercy of Allah to fall on us. We need strong marriages and men who want that, otherwise, we as an Ummah will continue facing many problems. We need you to “man up”. …

He Promised Marriage, Then Left Me

He Promised Marriage, Then Left Me

In this counseling answer: “Now is not the time to fall into despair and sadness, but a time to decide what direction your life is going to take. Are you going from here out to start behaving like a young lady or a careless teenager? Only you can decide what direction you will go.” As- …

Why Is Masturbation a Bad Habit?

Why Is Masturbation a Bad Habit?

In this counseling answer: “Masturbation is nothing new, but we don’t find the sahaabah teaching people it’s healthy for them. Islam teaches how to discipline one’s self not to actively invite people to do the opposite. In fact, The Messenger of Allah (saw) told young people to fast. Why? To teach them self-control. He (saw) also taught …

Can’t Forgive My Dead Husband Who Cheated on Me

Can’t Forgive My Dead Husband Who Cheated on Me

Answer: As-Salaamu ‘Alaykum, Sister, do you know this saying, “there are three types of business: (a) my business, (b) your business, (c) our business. I think this falls under my business.” Questions like how a person will be punished for their wrong doing, if they will be forgiven, what their end will be or when …

Will Porn Addiction Affect My Future Marriage?

In this counseling answer: “It’s true that the more a person looks at porn, the harder it is for them to be aroused by a real woman. You may not be content with “normal” sexual relations because your brain has associated the videos you have watched as being desirable and normal sexual relations as boring. …

Why Should I Not Masturbate?

Why Should I Not Masturbate?

In this counseling answer: “Because people who don’t have a foundation to build their life upon will always be confused and be moved by the fads of the people. We should certainly be open-minded people, learn from other cultures, read, and study. In fact, our religion teaches us to do so, but we have to know what …

I Don’t Like My Wife; I’ll Surely Cheat on Her Again

I Don’t Like My Wife; I’ll Surely Cheat on Her Again

In this counseling answer: “The best thing you can do (in case there is no way to fix your marriage with a marriage therapy) is to “man up” and leave your wife in a situation where it is just as good as she was before she met you or better.” As-Salaamu ‘Alaykum, It’s well known …

Grandpa Molested My Sister; She Can’t Overcome It

Grandpa Molested My Sister; She Can’t Overcome It

In this counseling answer: “If you want to help your sister, you should remind her that people are resilient, and a person does not have to live as a damaged fruit. Allah (swt) has given each person a personality and natural ways to deal with bad experiences. What we should do is help people find the …

I Can’t Live with My Drug-Addict Husband

I Can’t Live with My Drug-Addict Husband

Answer: Wa ‘Alaikum As-Salaam, I want to say it’s good for you to learn how to better your situation instead of”just taking it”, because that will bring you nothing but pain. The first thing I want to point out is that you must not have any children with your husband in this state. The thing …

Simple Plan to Start Your Addiction Recovery

Simple Plan to Start Your Addiction Recovery

Answer: Wa ‘Alaikum As-Salaam brother, Some people ask for advice just to feel better, and some ask because they are ready to do whatever it takes to change their situation. I hope you are the latter. The Messenger of Allah (saw) said what could mean “A Muslim is not stung from the same hole twice.” …



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