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Hate My Past

I Hate My Past: Will My Sins Determine My Future?

Short Answer: No person on this earth can know for certain what Allah will do. Have you asked Allah for forgiveness? We are reminded over and over and over again of Allah’s Mercy, so please do not doubt it and don’t despair. _____________________________________ Assalaam alaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh, Thank you for submitting this question. I am sorry …

Husband Accuses Me of Committing Zina in the Past

Husband Accuses Me of Committing Zina in the Past

In this counseling answer: “The greatest fear you have isn’t truly in being divorced. The greatest fear is that you are worthy of far greater than what you are receiving. However, to lead with such confidence and seek out a better life for yourself would mean having to accept you can take care of yourself …

How to Handle Undesirable Memory Flashbacks

How to Handle Undesirable Memory Flashbacks

In this counseling answer: You must realize that although it is the past, it is not what defines you. Once you have realized you have made a mistake and are seeking forgiveness, you must be certain that it will be forgiven. No human is ever perfect. Even in the Quran, Allah says, “Indeed, Allah is ever Pardoning …

punished for being in a haram relationship

Punished for Being in a Haram Relationship

In this counseling answer: “There is nothing to say that past haram (sinful) behaviors will definitely have a negative impact on our future actions and relations, unless, of course, we have not authentically moved past these behaviors. There is no evidence of this that I am aware of in our teachings. I think the path you are …

Telling Past Sins to Husband: Necessary?

Telling Past Sins to Husband: Necessary?

In this counseling answer: “Telling your husband more details about your past will only make things worse. Do not share any more about it, especially if you feel God has forgiven you and brought you closer through this journey.” As-Salaaamu ’Alaykum sister, May God increase you in knowledge and patience with your situation. I hope you …

My Fiancée Doesn’t Want to Marry Me Because of My Sinful Past

My Fiancée Doesn’t Want to Marry Me Because of My Sinful Past

In this counseling answer: • Keep praying istikharah, but understand that it is not always answered in the form of a dream. • During this time, stay away from the other girl in question. • Keep Allah close by maintaining your daily acts of worship that you will. Wa Alaikum salaam wa Rahmatullah wa barakatuh, You have done …

She Has a Sinful Past; Shall I Marry Her?

She Has a Sinful Past; Shall I Marry Her?

In this counseling answer: • Only marry her if you truly recognize that her past is no better than yours. • You need to get your relationship right with Allah (swt) and start keeping your daily prayers. As-Salamu ‘Alaykum dear brother, It seems you are in a dilemma. First, you were friends with this girl, …

Should I Tell My Boyfriend About My Sinful Past?

Should I Tell My Boyfriend About My Sinful Past?

In this counseling answer: “You are starting a new life in Islam. I would suggest that you surround yourself with righteous Muslim sisters and continue to focus on your relationship with Allah as well as continuing to build yourself up in Islam. Allah loves you, sister, but Shaitan would love to see you fall again …

My Wife Had an Abortion; I Thought She Was a Virgin

My Wife Had an Abortion; I Thought She Was a Virgin

In this counseling answer: ” It doesn’t matter if she didn’t tell you about her past. What matters is that you are happy together and are improving each other to be a better Muslims every day. Respect her as you have always done and do not decrease your love and care for her.” As Salaam Aleikom Brother, …

Rumors Prevent Our Marriage

Rumors Prevent Our Marriage

In this counseling answer: “I agree with the fact that you must be willing to forgive a bad past. However, when you are aware of some of the mistakes that he might have committed, you must be careful in ensuring that he is, indeed, a changed individual and will, inshallah, never repeat them in the …



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