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What to Do with Excessive Wet Dreams?

In this counseling answer: • Excessive wet dreams are not something to be too concerned about. Many adolescents experience these dreams as a way to release hormonal enhancements which are taking place as your body prepares itself to become a full sexual adult. • As time passes and you get older, your sexual drive will naturally …

I Can Not Give Up Masturbation

I Can Not Give Up Masturbation

In this counseling answer: • Having a high sex drive is not wrong in itself, and that is precisely why we are encouraged to marry young so that we can satisfy those urges in a permissible manner with our spouses. • We urge you to busy yourself and to stop masturbating because if you do …

I Want to Improve My Communication Skills Before the Interview

In this counseling answer: • Our relationship with Allah (swt) is of utmost importance, the number one thing we should strive for in this life. All else will follow. • If every time you are in a situation wherein you feel weak or unsure of something, if you always take it to Allah (swt) with …

My Outbursts of Anger Affect My Family

My Outbursts of Anger Affect My Family

In this counseling answer: • Consider also how a divorce might affect your two precious children. • The first step in making amends is to identify who you have hurt and what exactly you said or did that hurt those individuals. • Don’t just say sorry; develop an action plan for your own personal development in order …

I Have Lost Interest at Work

I Have Lost Interest at Work

In this counseling answer: • In order to remain focused on a task, the first thing you can do is to literally remove the things that distract you. • Always ensure to take your break away from your workspace. • Think about why you do the job that you do. • Try a different routine …

How to Overcome Social Anxiety & Find My Life Goals?

How to Overcome Social Anxiety & Find My Life Goals?

In this counseling answer: • Joining groups with sisters who share similar interests will make the building of friendships even easier. • Write a list of the various things you want to do and think about the following things: why are you passionate about them? • Don’t hesitate about whether you made the right choice; just run …

Déjà Vu or True Dream?

Déjà Vu or True Dream?

In this counseling answer: “Déjà vu is the experience of feeling like something happened before. Whereas, if you have a true dream, you will remember the dream quite vividly. It will be one of those dreams that you cannot shake off. You will know that it is significant because the dream will feel powerful. You …

Past Suicide Attempts Still Affect My Life

Past Suicide Attempts Still Affect My Life

In this counseling answer: “I also suggest you try to plan your day so that you have time for yourself. This is so important to do as we need to have a balance in life. This means socializing with friends, helping the family at home, studying or working, eating healthy foods, getting good rest & …

How to Stop Being Lazy & Get Motivated

How to Stop Being Lazy & Get Motivated

In this counseling answer: “Start this with developing your Personal Mission Statement. Ask yourself what you want to be written about you in your obituary when you die. What are you here on this Earth for? What are you here to give the world and humanity? Pray to Allah (swt) for guidance and to show …

I Feel People Look Down on Me

I Feel People Look Down on Me

Answer: As-Salaam ‘Alaikum, Thank you for writing to us about your concern. We appreciate it. I will try my best to help and advice you, In sha’Allah. I am happy to hear that you are trying to get out of your comfort zone to practice your social skills. That’s very good! They are called social …



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