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Husband-to-be or Ex-Fiance?

My Dilemma: Husband-to-Be or Ex-Fiancé?

In this counseling answer: Focus on your future marriage and future husband.  Salamu ‘Alaykum sister, Thank you for writing to us. Congratulations on your upcoming marriage! It must be an exciting time for you. Your question pertaining to your ex-fiancée is pretty much self-answered sis. You stated you loved your current fiancée. Regarding your ex-fiancée, …

I Can’t Stop Thinking about Guys

I Can’t Stop Thinking about Guys

In this counseling answer: • Focus on your present life, needs, and goals. • Join a single sisters’ group or enroll in marriage seminars at your mosque. • Keep your five daily prayers. Make du’aa’, do dhzkir, read Qur’an, and reflect upon the beauty and magnificence of mercy and forgiveness. As Salamu ‘Alaikum sister, What you have been experiencing …

Loved Him, But He Just Used Me

Loved Him, But He Just Used Me

In this counseling answer: • Sometimes, we must experience the ugly in order to love the beautiful and true. • Remember to marry someone you feel compatible with and attracted to. Don’t marry someone just to please your parents. As-Salaamu ’Alaykum Sister, God bless you on your journey and for gaining wisdom. As you said, …

love marriage

Love or Marriage: What Comes First?

Salam (Peace) Dear Carine, Thank you for your question and for contacting Ask About Islam. Normal Interaction vs. Serious Interaction Although I have answered many questions concerning the issues of male-female relationships and whether Muslim society is mixed or segregated, apparently those subjects are always on top of controversial issues and need regular refreshment! In all …

Commitment Phobia or He's the Wrong Person for Me?

Commitment Phobia or He's the Wrong Person for Me?

Answer: As-Salamu `Alaikum Sister, Thank you for sending us your question. It seems you are stuck in a difficult situation. May Allah choose the best for you and your fiancé. From your description of yourself, it seems you are a strong, educated, and independent woman. Those are wonderful qualities that most women aspire to become. …

Is This Love or Just Infatuation?

Is This Love or Just Infatuation?

In this counseling answer: “Islam only talks about halal relationships. Attraction towards the opposite sex must be then transformed into a lawful relationship (marriage). Thus, take some time and direct yourself towards a career and other responsibilities. If you are really serious about this guy, maybe you can talk to him about marriage and the possibility to …

How to End My Haram Relationship with This Guy?

How to End My Haram Relationship with This Guy?

Answer: As-Salamu `Alaikum dear sister, Thank you for your question and your trust. May Allah reward you abundantly for wanting to be on His path, and may He replace all your bad deeds with good ones. I’m so sorry dear sister for the situation you are in now. I know it must be a difficult …

I Fell in Love with My Online Friend

In this counseling answer: “What really happened is that you have unmet emotional needs. These emotional longings and needs are real, and everyone has them. This person gave you hope that these needs were going to be met. You attached yourself on a subconscious level to the person that represented the fulfillment of these emotional needs. Yet, …

Trapped in The Net of a Married Man

Trapped in The Net of a Married Man

In this counseling answer: “Once you have repented, keep yourself busy with charity work that you enjoy, find a hobby that makes you happy, get involved in Islamic classes at your Masjid and do things socially with up-building pious sisters. Once you begin to fill your life with love for Allah and focus on Islamic values and activities, …

I Hate My Fiancé But Can't Break Up

I Hate My Fiancé But Can't Break Up

Answer: As–Salamu `Alaikum, Dear sister, thank you for writing us with your question. It is a bit difficult from this end to understand why you are not interested in marrying this man. Is it because he was arranged by your family? I didn’t get a clear picture of that from your question. I think you …



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