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Abuse, Sex, Boyfriends: I Want to Purify Myself

Abuse, Sex, Boyfriends: I Want to Purify Myself

In this counseling answer: • Find a counselor/mental health professional in your area and start a therapy. • Appreciating and loving yourself leads to high self-esteem. • Allah will, in fact, forgive you if you are sincere in your repentance. Believe it. Salam ‘Aleikom, Thank you for sending us your question. I am very sorry to hear about …

I Feel Guilty for Having Romantic Fantasies

I Feel Guilty for Having Romantic Fantasies

In this counseling answer: • The fantasies that you are describing dear sister are common and normal fantasies that emerge as one begins to grow and develop into a young adult. • Try to fill that time instead with other activities, such as studying, going for a walk, engaging in a hobby or an Islamic …

How to Handle the Pain of Unrequited Love

How to Handle the Pain of Unrequited Love

In this counseling answer: “I would kindly ask that you start writing a journal. I ask that you write in it daily, noting your feelings, thoughts, and wishes. I also want you to in sha’ Allah makes a list of all your positive traits, qualities, and aspirations. I want you to make another list of your blessings. Read them …

He Used Me, Then Dumped Me

He Used Me, Then Dumped Me

In this counseling answer: “I would suggest that you focus on yourself and your goals from this point forward. If you want to work on becoming a better Muslim, then, by all means, work towards this goal. Understand that Allah took you away from this guy because He loves you and wants you to live …

haram relationship

10 Tips on How to Quit Haram Relationships

 Being in a haram (disallowed) relationship is a very common problem that challenges Muslim youths nowadays. It’s very easy to engage in such relationships but to give up is the most difficult part.  Here we give you 10 tips that will help you break away and stop this Haram relationship for the sake of God.

punished for being in a haram relationship

Punished for Being in a Haram Relationship

In this counseling answer: “There is nothing to say that past haram (sinful) behaviors will definitely have a negative impact on our future actions and relations, unless, of course, we have not authentically moved past these behaviors. There is no evidence of this that I am aware of in our teachings. I think the path you are …

Will We Be Sexually Compatible After Marriage?

Will We Be Sexually Compatible After Marriage?

In this counseling answer: “Take your time to talk to him more, have few meetings with him in person in a safe space, get to know his family, and let him know yours. I strongly advise you to keep your du’aa’ and let God lead your decision. If everything seems easy in order for you and …

Husband-to-be or Ex-Fiance?

My Dilemma: Husband-to-Be or Ex-Fiancé?

In this counseling answer: Focus on your future marriage and future husband.  Salamu ‘Alaykum sister, Thank you for writing to us. Congratulations on your upcoming marriage! It must be an exciting time for you. Your question pertaining to your ex-fiancée is pretty much self-answered sis. You stated you loved your current fiancée. Regarding your ex-fiancée, …

I Love Him, but Can't Reveal My Past

I Love Him, but Can't Reveal My Past

In this counseling answer: • We suggest strongly that you not uncover what Allah (swt) has already chosen to cover for you. • Your repentance should continue so that you do not become complacent. -Salamu `Alaikum,  Thank you for writing to us. Here are some thoughts for your consideration. First, all praise is due to Allah …

I Can’t Stop Thinking about Guys

I Can’t Stop Thinking about Guys

In this counseling answer: • Focus on your present life, needs, and goals. • Join a single sisters’ group or enroll in marriage seminars at your mosque. • Keep your five daily prayers. Make du’aa’, do dhzkir, read Qur’an, and reflect upon the beauty and magnificence of mercy and forgiveness. As Salamu ‘Alaikum sister, What you have been experiencing …



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