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3 Years Passed but I’m Still Not Married to Him

In this counseling answer: “If people can go through the loss of a loved one at this level, then know that you can go through the loss of this three-year relationship and move on to a life you don’t feel guilty about.” Salam ’Aleikom, Thank you for writing to ask for some help to overcome …

Beating the Break-Up Blues

Beating the Break-Up Blues

In this counseling answer: Get the mental health treatment you need, engage in the Islamic community, focus on your studies and remain close to Allah (swt) through pray and supplication. You will find your life path increasing with blessings, and your hurt and pain slowly dissolving in sha’ Allah. As-Salamu ‘Alaykum, Thank you for writing to …

I Believed He Would Propose to Me, but...

I Believed He Would Propose to Me, but...

In this counseling answer: “I encourage you to thank Allah (swt) for saving you from something that would possibly hurt you down the road or led you away from Allah (swt) completely. Make a list of the things you would like to accomplish next in life and set steps towards getting there. Spend time with your …

The Man I Love Died in a Car Accident; How to Move On?

The Man I Love Died in a Car Accident; How to Move On?

In this counseling answer: Grieving over a loss is a natural human reaction, but we need to think beyond the past and move on to the future. The counselor advises getting active, visiting different places in order to gain back the motivation for life, counting even the smallest blessings of Allah (swt) in you life, …

Shall I Marry a non-Virgin Girl?

Shall I Marry a non-Virgin Girl?

In this counseling answer: If you are seeking a pious wife who has not indulged in any haram activity, you need to be practicing a similar lifestyle. The counselor, thus, advises the brother to make sure the both of them are serious about getting married, to talk to the parents of both sides, and …

The Man I Love is Marrying Another Girl

The Man I Love is Marrying Another Girl

Answer: As Salamu ‘Alaykum sister, Thank you for writing to us. I am so sorry to hear that the person you love the most left you to be engaged to another girl. I can imagine this hurts to the core of your heart. While I do not know the details of your “relationship” or your …

I Rejected His Proposal Because of My Studies

I Rejected His Proposal Because of My Studies

Answer: As-Salaam ’Aleikom, Thank you for your question, we appreciate it. I will try my best to advice you, In sha’ Allah. I think you did the right thing to tell him to ask your father for your hand. If he agreed to it, then I assume that he knows when you will finish your …

Failed Exams: I'm Stressed & Depressed

Failed Exams: I'm Stressed & Depressed

Answer: As-Salamu ‘Alaikum sister, I am so sorry to hear what you have been going through. It must have been very stressful and disappointing to fail your exams with a border of 10 marks. As you have a lot in your mind, I am wondering if you really did put forth efforts into studying as …

I Repented, but People Are Still Mocking Me

I Repented, but People Are Still Mocking Me

Answer: Wa ‘Alaikum Salaam sister, Firstly, let me reassure you that you did the right thing to end the relationship. You are right; you were disobeying Allah (swt) as it is haram to have a relationship with someone outside of marriage. This is for our own protection, and you have had the unfortunate experience of …

We Sacrificed Our Love for The Sake of Parents

We Sacrificed Our Love for The Sake of Parents

Answer: Wa ‘Aleikum Salam, It is unfortunate that you and this girl were unable to marry each other. Regarding parents’ opinion in marriage, our scholar states: “One of the main duties upon man is to be dutiful to his parents because Allah (swt) the Almighty says: ‘Thy Lord has decreed, that you worship none save Him, …



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