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We Sacrificed Our Love for The Sake of Parents

We Sacrificed Our Love for The Sake of Parents

In this counseling answer: • Since the girl is now married, you should not contact her again. • Accept the situation by understanding the underlying idea that whatever happened was Allah’s (swt) will. • Go for a vacation. Do things that you enjoy. Wa ‘Aleikum Salam, It is unfortunate that you and this girl were unable to …

After 5 Years of Dating, His Family Rejected Me

After 5 Years of Dating, His Family Rejected Me

In this counseling answer: • Piety should be the most sought-after quality; however, various cultures and families put emphasis on other things. • You are both grown, you are both adults, and you are free to marry, if you wish, despite parental objection  – as long as the Islamic requirements are met. • Make istikharah. As Salamu …

My Girlfriend Has Left Me: I’m Lost

My Girlfriend Has Left Me: I’m Lost

In this counseling answer: “Get busy with everything and anything. Keep your mind off her by not thinking about her and replaying over and over again what happened. You are the only one who will suffer. Move on with dignity. Remove anything in your life that reminds you of her (texts, emails, pictures, objects, etc.) …

Perpetual Debate with My Fiancé: Is It a Sign?

Perpetual Debate with My Fiancé: Is It a Sign?

In this counseling answer: “I would also highly recommend that the both of you participate in pre-marital counseling. The counseling will help the both of you put everything in perspective and talk about the really important issues, which is refreshing and reassuring after arguing over small issues. This suggestion is highly recommended, and I encourage …

My Long Distance Relationship

My Long Distance Relationship

In this counseling answer: “If you really depend on God, then everything will fall into its proper place and be made clear to you. Take the means you can, but do not get attached to “what you want”; be open to the “whatever is best” principle. Trust in God and instead of asking Him to …

feelings of guilt

How to Overcome Feelings of Guilt?

In this counseling answer: “I kindly advise you sister to rest assured Allah loves and forgives you. Please do move forward in your Islam, getting involved in increasing your Islamic knowledge as well as seeking out Islamic sisters to do things with.  Cut off this boy-he is lost and he is toxic.” As salamu …

I am Deeply in Love With a Man Who Dumped Me

I am Deeply in Love With a Man Who Dumped Me

In this counseling answer: “Get occupied. See if he comes back. A lot of times they do, but they take a long, long time. He needs to think about what he wants. Who knows what might happen IF you give him the space that he needs to get in touch with what he needs on a soul …

He Betrayed Me and Married Someone Else

He Betrayed Me and Married Someone Else

Answer: Salamu ‘Alaykum Sister, Thank you for sending us your question. I ask Allah to help you and give you strength and perseverance to live your life fully, to truly forgive yourself, and to be hopeful that Allah will guide you to reach your dreams. I am sorry to hear about the previous relationship you …

Love

Letting Go of This Love or Just Wait?

In this counseling answer: “I would kindly suggest dear sister that you encourage your friend to let go of this guy as he appears to be a player, not serious, and not ready for marriage.  Besides, if he is acting this way now, what makes her think he will change once they are married?  In …

3 Years Passed but I’m Still Not Married to Him

In this counseling answer: “If people can go through the loss of a loved one at this level, then know that you can go through the loss of this three-year relationship and move on to a life you don’t feel guilty about.” Salam ’Aleikom, Thank you for writing to ask for some help to overcome …



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