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Husband’s Three Wives and His Cyber Sex Partners

Husband’s Three Wives and His Cyber Sex Partners

In this counseling answer: “The best thing you can do at this point is to attempt to connect with him. I know, this sounds really difficult, but if your goal is to help him admit his wrongdoing and stop him from doing it in the future, he needs support.” As-Salamu ‘Alaykum sister, Thank you for …

Shall I Marry a Married Man?

Shall I Marry a Married Man?

In this counseling answer: “The probability of this relationship to succeed is low. I don’t think he has been respectful of you or his wife. You should not marry him out of fear. At the end of the day, marriage is supposed to bring happiness and joy to our lives, and it requires work and …

Shall I Marry a Narcissist Who Want to Live in Polygamy?

Shall I Marry a Narcissist Who Wants to Live in Polygamy?

In this counseling answer: • I would kindly suggest that your fiancé seek mental health counseling insha’Allah to determine if in fact, he does have NPD or if he is suffering from another disorder. • Connect with your local Masjid and Islamic center. Take Islamic classes to learn more about Islam, as well as make friends …

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Before You Marry Me, No-Polygamy Clause Needed

“I hope you don’t plan on doing something like that,” I said. His smile faded. “Doing something like what?” “Marrying another wife.” He was quiet for some time. “Of course not.” “Good.” I folded my arms across my chest. “Anyway, I read that I can put a no-polygamy clause in my contract.” He nodded slowly. …

Naturally Polygynous

If Men Are Naturally Polygynous, Why Adam & Eve?

Short Answer: Because God created Adam with just one wife, it can’t be said that men are “naturally polygynous.” The default and natural creation of human beings is to incline emotionally to one person and “out of the two spread men and women.” Any other form of “family” is a matter of culture that is formed despite …

Shall I Take a Second Wife to Have a Son?

Shall I Take a Second Wife to Have a Son?

In this counseling answer: • It is absolutely necessary that you tell your husband your feelings towards his suggestion. The best way to approach this issue is with complete clarity and honesty with your husband. • Things don’t necessarily have to end up with him marrying a second wife or with divorce. The both of …

But I Just Can’t Accept Polygamy

But I Just Can’t Accept Polygamy

Why is it so hard to accept polygamy? Why is it so excruciating to share my husband? When will I be able to feel OK about my husband having another wife? One reply to these sorts of questions I came across really struck me: you first have to accept you don’t own your husband. ‘But of …

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“Polygamy, Not My Problem”- A Muslim Woman

Those women who seek to “love polygamy” often live in psychological and emotional turmoil as they deny themselves the right to hurt or even cry. They feel guilty for any resentment or emotional outbursts..

My Husband Loves His Other Wife More Than Me

My Husband Loves His Other Wife More Than Me

In this counseling answer: • Patience is the key to improve the relationship between yourself and the other wife. • Try communicating with your husband in a manner where you are not blaming him or putting him on the spot. As-Salamu ‘Aleikum, We are glad that you reached out to us with your problems. We …

My Husband Married Another Woman Secretly

My Husband Married Another Woman Secretly

In this counseling answer: Both of you need to brush up on Islamic knowledge and discussions pertaining to polygamy. Get to know the conditions required for it to be healthy and practiced properly. As-Salaam ’Alaikum sister, It is unfortunate that you find yourself in this position, sister. Polygamy is a difficult situation to address. Some scholars …



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